Communication is an art. We communicate all the time in our life, whether it's life, work or study, except when we have a rest. There are skills in communication, but we must not rely on skills alone, and then treat others with hypocrisy. We must be sincere in communicating with others, no matter whether we have skills or not, otherwise it will only have a negative effect. So how to communicate with others?
First, ask your conscience before you speak. It's the so-called "don't do what you don't want to do to others". If you feel uncomfortable when you hear something, don't say it to others. Think about the truth before you speak? Is it a kind word? Is it a matter of conscience? For example, when you do something wrong or encounter a little setback, do you want your friends to encourage you to comfort you, or do you want them to sneer and draw cold water? The answer must be the former, so when your friends encounter setbacks or do something wrong, be tolerant, comfort others well, do not comfort but do not stab others with words.
Second, when talking, don't patronize yourself to talk about topics of interest to the other party. Praise others to be sincere, do not boast, must learn to praise and identify with others, can look at their eyes heavy nodding and say 'yes'! You can also look at each other with sincere eyes of powerful language and say 'I agree with what you just said'. If there is something wrong with other people, don't tell them at that time unless you have to.
Third, listening is very important. A good listener will surely get a lot of good feelings. Don't interrupt others' conversation, look at each other's eyes quietly, let others finish speaking, ask questions or nod occasionally, so that the other party feels that you are listening carefully.