The new year is coming soon. For single older men and women, will they be urged to marry again when the new year comes? When they go home, they will inevitably meet each other. What are the precautions for the new year's blind date? Today's editor will summarize some precautions for you when you meet each other, which will definitely let you get rid of the single as soon as possible.
It is a process of gradual progress, mutual understanding, mutual communication and gradual running in through various effective means, such as tea, walking, eating, short rest, telephone, tourism, etc., under the guidance of the two introducers, between the parents, aunts, uncles, aunts and uncles, between the two sides who have never met each other for the purpose of marriage. This is the catalyst for love at first sight and long-term love, and also an effective way to promote no marriage.
Careful planning in advance is the decisive factor for the smooth development of dating and subsequent love. So, before dating, what minefields do the remaining men need to avoid?
1. Positioning yourself
It doesn't matter if a man is poor, he is afraid to be poor and have backbone. We should have a clear understanding of ourselves, in case we can't climb or see each other. If you are tall enough to compete with Pan Changjiang, you have to find a model with a height of 1.7 meters; if you have a monthly salary of 800 yuan, you have to find a model with a monthly salary of more than 10000 yuan; if you are Chinese, you want to go to Facebook, youtube and other websites. If so, I can only say with regret that YY novels kill people. Characters like Trinket are doomed to live in novels.
2. Plain appearance is the key
As a man, we should stick to our nature. It's enough to be clean, clean and simple. Are the hair, neckline, cuffs and shoes clean? Are the nails neatly trimmed? Are the lenses of the glasses clean and bright? Is the matching of clothing and leather bags appropriate? Don't make jokes like red and green, or wearing a suit back woven bag and tourist shoes. Is the matching of socks and shoes appropriate? Is there a strong smell on the body, no matter the smell or odor.
3. Don't be late or leave early
Although most people have a poor sense of time, we should stress that it's not just dating. Whether it's an interview, a visit to a friend or a party, being late or late will make people's impression of you worse. If you do have to cancel the appointment or arrive late because of force majeure, you must call the other party in advance.
4. Money, money, money
On this point, just to say that even if the blind date is not successful, as a man, do you mean to let others pay? So remember to prepare enough money for the expenses. If you insist that the other party pay the bill and be upright, I can only give you one sentence. You are really a top-notch man. You don't need to consider dating. You deserve to be in charge for the rest of your life.
5. Do a good job
As a man, gentlemanly demeanor is very important. Pay attention to the details during the meeting. After the meeting, send the girl home or at least to a place with convenient transportation, and remember to send a message to ask if it is safe to get home. In this way, you will have a good reputation even if you cannot meet each other. Don't worry, the word of mouth will surely reach the ears of the introducer. The introducer will be very happy to continue to introduce to you. Even the female side will introduce her friends, good sisters and so on. There are people in the world. With good word-of-mouth, mom doesn't have to worry about your blind date anymore.
Our biggest misunderstanding of love is that it is omnipotent. Men must remember: what she pursues is money, you give him enough money, she will not be angry because you go to a woman; what she pursues is emotion, you give her enough love, she will not look down on you because you have no money. If you can't give money and love to her, but you want her to tolerate your playfulness, laziness and lying, then I'm sorry, you need a fool.