Xiaobian knows an old man who has been in the field of marriage and love for more than ten years. She sums up the characteristics of the crowd types who often turn to marriage and love websites for help. The three types of people who need to come to marriage and love websites for dating are often:
First, the circle is too small and there are few opportunities to meet the right opposite sex.
Second, people who lack love power.
Third, people whose expectations are far greater than their own conditions.
Above the first and second categories of people to marriage website, dating success rate is the highest, the most easy to single.
The biggest advantage of dating websites is that there are many resources and great opportunities. The first kind of people are short of opportunities. Generally, they have a normal view of mate selection, and their requirements and conditions are basically matched. They will soon meet the right objects.
The first group of people, who are the most favorite children of marriage workers in dating websites, are the most labor-saving, and they usually take off the single in a few months, and soon report to their teachers.
I remember that meeting in 2014, when I served a 34 year old man who was 156 in height and worked in a hospital, with an extremely high academic degree and IQ, I got a detailed understanding of his situation and his mate selection requirements, and found that he was short of opportunities and love communication skills, and had no requirements for girls. Normal people were healthy and could accept communication without any problems.
So the first thing is to build up his confidence. His disadvantage is his height. His advantage is his work and education. We must find a girl who doesn't care about his height. His education is not as good as his.
After a careful screening, there were about four girls nearby who matched him very well. They arranged for him to meet one by one. After meeting, he said that the fourth girl was more willing to associate with him, so he arranged to associate with the last girl.
Very smooth, less than a month to determine the relationship, three months to meet each other's parents, about half a year to hear the good news of their marriage license.
Ha ha, the first kind of people are so cute. No matter what the conditions are, as long as you have a very normal view of choosing a mate, you just lack the opportunity to go to a regular dating website and have a high probability of success. Anyway, you're here. I can't see one. I'll see four. I can't see four. I'll continue to see eight. After a series of bombings, one always looks at each other.
Say the first group, say the second group, lack of love power, is to constantly improve the love power, this type of people, know more people, talk about one or two love practices, soon love power back.
Remember, love is a long skill experience. A single person for several years, of course, easy to lose love. So going to a dating website is to increase the probability of marriage. This kind of people don't have to worry about getting married. They need to find someone to talk about love and try the water temperature first, get back that feeling, know what they want, and then get married.
Compared with the first group of people, they spend much more time to get rid of the single because they are not suitable for flash marriage.
Some smart people will wake up, slowly realize that their ideals are too big and hard to achieve, slowly reduce their requirements, and change back to the first and second categories of people, and they will finally get something and leave the marriage website happily.
But some people will stick to their own ideas and linger in the marriage website for many years. At this time, if you don't want to reduce the requirements, you can choose to improve yourself.
Mr. Z, a male student, belongs to this type. Diaosi wants to find Bai Fumei and insists on getting nothing in the dating website for five years. During this period, his career and income are still the same level as before without any improvement. I really want to persuade him to earn a million first.
In fact, after so many years of marriage consultation, those customers who finally get happiness are rarely the ideal ones that were identified at the beginning. They are all in the process of seeking, slowly let their conditions and needs return to normal values, and then meet a lovely person who doesn't hate and lives a long time.
The love of ordinary people needs time, not Huang Xiaoming and Yang Ying. They fell in love at first sight and decided to live forever. People who need to end their single lives through dating sites are unlikely to meet love at first sight.
In short, if you are a person who is unwilling to compromise, the best way is to improve your own strength. You see the people whose value is between cucumber and cherry will suffer. If they are unwilling to sell cucumber, they will let themselves have the strength of cherry.