Infants are more sensitive to the outside world than ordinary people, but because of their own weakness, their mental quality is not strong for the time being, and they are prone to fear because of all kinds of things and sounds around them. At this time, they express their fear through crying or stupefaction and other behaviors. When their mother sees this situation, she is very worried. If the older child can communicate with him to find out the cause of the fear and prevent it in later life, but in the face of a small baby, the younger mother is a little helpless, afraid of hurting the child too much.
In fact, when a baby is frightened, it generally does not need special treatment. When a baby is frightened, most of them cry day and night, often accompanied by low spirits and poor appetite; some of them are restless at night, sleepless, dreamy or babble. Some of them cry loudly, stop suddenly, do not suck milk, drowsiness and so on. Young moms should not worry too much. This is not a serious illness, so don't mess about.
What should we do in case of a baby being frightened? Both young and experienced mothers should remember!
(1) when the baby is frightened, the mother needs to talk with the baby quietly and pat the baby's back to show affection. From time to time, mothers can shake their babies around with their arms in their arms. From time to time, they can talk to each other and say that they are not alone. You can protect them by your side.
(2) when the baby is frightened, the mother can massage the baby through the clothes. Once the baby is frightened, the mother immediately comforts the baby with a soft voice and makes more skin contact.
(3) when the baby is surprised, the mother can change her baby's posture, for example, changing her strange sleeping posture to make the baby curious, and shifting her attention is also one of the ways to relieve the symptoms of fright.
Of course, there are also folk practices. When I was a child, my grandma would stand at the door and shout my brother's name, saying words like come back soon. This is what the folk call the way to summon souls.
In a word, when Xiaobian feels that the baby is surprised, the mothers must make the baby feel a safe environment, whether it's gentle to talk with it, or to touch more gently, or to play some gentle music. The mothers need to relax themselves and not to bring the tension to the baby. Moms also need to pay more attention to reflect on what makes babies in this situation, in order to prevent similar situations next time. But mothers don't have to face the enemy. As they get older, their babies are less frightened.