Many people doubt that singles' Day is suitable for expressing their love. In fact, the success rate of expressing their love on singles' Day is quite high. Although Ma Yun has turned singles' day into a national Carnival Shopping Festival, it is still an opportunity for single dogs to seize.
The steps of pursuing the goddess on Singles Day
The first step is to understand what kind of Goddess you like? Lori? Yujie? Foodie? Lovely? Pure? Intellectual? Literature? Or ancient spirit? PS: make sure your goddess is single.
The second step is to understand the attributes of your goddess, and then understand your goddess's preferences. What kind of boy does she like? Uncle? Xueba? Herbivore? Muscle man?
Knowing the above two points, we should start to formulate strategies and plan the courtship offensive.
Like Uncle, you can dress mature, change your dressing style, dress appropriately, in line with their own characteristics, generous, not strange clothes, formal dress will appear mature, and then pay attention to talking, not swearing, rough;
For those who love literature, you can supplement literary knowledge, read some literary works recommended by the post bar, or read some literary comments written by others to enrich yourself, but don't overdo it, otherwise you will be self defeating;
If you are infatuated with herbivores, you can pretend to be green and cute. When you wear younger and lovely clothes and chat, you can also be more playful.
All in all, it's a new boyfriend for your goddess~
Xiaobian wants to explain here that the easiest thing to do is to eat. Take her to a delicious meal. Maybe she will never leave her life and death.
When you become the boy of your goddess, you should learn to make a little romance. No matter what kind of girls, they like romance. But remember. Romance is OK, don't be too high-profile.
Romantic Tips: the most basic is flowers, small gifts (according to personal preferences), can also be handicrafts, toys. According to the experience of minnan.com, it's the best way to give girls hairy bear toys to capture their hearts. Besides, the first time to send flowers, it's better not to send red roses, because most girls are slow and hot, which will scare them directly.
Finally, after sending romance, you can invite us to dinner and go to the movies together. Most single girls don't turn down your invitation on singles day, because it's a bit frustrating to see other people in pairs, no matter how proud they are.
Finally, Xiaobian should remind you that when you go to see a girl, you must dress neatly and generously.
Bachelor's day, also known as the "light day" and the "light day", is a kind of entertainment festival popular among young people, and also a day when many young people choose to express their love. Then, how should we express our love in this day? Xiaobian provides you with several most romantic ways to express our love:
1. Find a proper time and ask her to a romantic place. Take her to the cinema for 33 days. Say to her: do you want to be my princess? Of course, in order to improve the success rate, you can know what she likes through her friends, so that you can give it to her before expressing your love. As for the location, it's different from person to person. It's better to be the place that the woman likes. If she likes the park, you can choose to express your love in the park, which is also the place with the highest success rate. This method is more popular and can be chosen by many people.
Add: in fact, the most effective and easiest way is to make an appointment to a place, and then say it to her. If you don't know how to say it, then I can tell you a common saying, which is also the most common one (Note: if two people don't like each other, then confession is only a form, she doesn't care what you say, how to say it, she only cares whether you say it or not, so you don't have to worry about the clich é s) for example: when you two are standing opposite each other When waiting or sitting close to her, you can try to hold or hold her hand. If she doesn't refuse or resist, you can look at her with gentle eyes and say: 'actually, I have noticed (like, love secretly) you for a long time. To be honest, I didn't believe in love at first sight before, but since I first saw you, you have remained in my heart Under a good impression, I often think of your smile, your lovely, your good, your beauty. When I always think of it, I can't help but be moved. Because I've made sure that you are my favorite. I'll never change this feeling. These are the words in my heart. I didn't dare to say them before, but today I finally have the courage to express them to you. I hope you can give me a chance, I want to refuse me, or give us a chance, let me take care of you and protect you, OK? 'this is just a framework, you can change, add or delete the language according to your own situation.
2. write letters. That is, to write love letters, express your love for her in love letters, and try not to refer to other love letter writing methods, because it will be more rigid (because many love letter examples have the same expression methods, and sentence patterns and words are known by others, if the woman finds out that you refer to plagiarism, she may think you are insincere and just perfunctory). So love letters are best from Self writing, writing out their true feelings, whether good or bad, will make girls moved. This method is mainly suitable for some shy boys and boys who dare not express themselves face to face.
3. If you think the above words are too tedious (Note: this kind of saying is romantic and easy to move girls), then I can provide you with several relatively simple words:
a. In fact, I've been paying attention to you for a long time. Can I ask you to be my girlfriend. This kind of saying, short and overbearing, can show your self-confidence and make the woman feel safe. )
b. Mink cicada can't compare with your charm, Xishi can't compare with your virtuous, weaver girl has no your appearance, but I want to be your cowherd, meet you at magpie bridge, would you like to meet me? (when the famous women in history are used to praise her, it's better not to exceed three sentences, otherwise you will be mistaken by the other party. Just enough can make her feel that you are romantic and will not be boring in the future life)
c. I like you for a long time. Although I don't have anything now, I'm willing to fight for you and make you the happiest woman in the world. Please believe me, OK? (this kind of expression can euphemistically say that your current economic situation is not very good, but at the same time it can prove that you love this woman deeply. If the woman agrees, it proves that she also likes you very much, without any utilitarian color. But that's not a good way to say it to women who worship money.)
d. In fact, sometimes it's not necessary to say how nice it is. If both of them love each other, it's OK to say 'I like you'.
4. Nowadays, the network is very developed and there are many communication tools. It is a useful method to use this kind of means to express one's love. But when you say it, be serious, or the other party may think you are playing with her on the Internet. But there are some limitations in this way. Because the two didn't meet when expressing on the Internet, the man should take the initiative when meeting, such as holding her hand, building her for a moment, and opening the deadlock.
5. If you are a very timid boy and dare not express love to the beloved woman, you can also pass on the message through her friend, but the effect is not very good, so I have a way to recommend it to you: find a group of your good friends to coax them, negotiate with them in advance, let them pull you to the girl and let them say: 'this guy likes you for a long time Today, he wants to express to you and listen carefully to these words. After seeing the girl blushing, these friends will leave, leaving you and her alone. Then you will say that success is best. If he doesn't agree, you're not embarrassed. You can make excuses to say that friends are joking. But don't act miscellaneous.
6. Tell you how to prepare for the confession or how to make a good relationship.
a. Have a good relationship with her, at least make her not dislike you.
b. Help her everywhere, let her feel that you are not bad.
c. The more ambiguous the situation is, the better it will be for you. Don't rush to make a confession, break that layer of paper
She is always good to her, she responds positively, and she is not opposed to men and women being alone. She tries to pull down her hand and other intimate actions. She is not opposed or just angry. Basically, she can be a girlfriend, continue to develop, and the anxious person will be her.
d. As long as you look at your mind, if you take the initiative, girls will be scared. It's better to find out the details first and then try to match his hobbies with him as much as possible. Be nice to her, but don't overdo it. You know, girls care about common language.
e. I know that you like her and ask questions. Even if he says "let me think about it" and "I'm sorry", don't lose heart and keep working hard. It will definitely move her! Come on.
f. You go to her good friend to inquire about the situation in advance, because most girls are different from boys. Girls will tell their best friend who they like, and let's have a talk first. Know what items and words she likes so you can do your homework.
g. Let the girl feel safe with you, let him feel that you are excellent in a certain aspect, let her appreciate you first, and behave steadily, not casually. At the same time, you should not show that you are too fanatical, so that she thinks you are very single-minded and a man who can be entrusted.