Have you ever heard of Xiaosan persuading him to quit? One year, 20 junior middle school students are discouraged, and the fastest 30 days is to persuade one out of this industry. In China, where the divorce rate is getting higher and higher, how many families are fragmented because of the "junior three" involvement. But is it so hard to retrieve the feelings? Let's follow Xiaobian to understand. Is it so easy for junior three to become a full-time official? In fact, whether junior three has to be criticized for a while, after all, every relationship is complex and cannot be generalized. But now there's a new industry - helping to dissuade 'third parties'! Have you heard of such an industry?
20 junior middle school students a year
It is reported that the emotional counselor in Luoyang, Henan Province is a professional in this field. It is highly efficient to persuade 20 junior high school students to leave one in 30 days at the most. The charge for each customer is basically between 5 to 10 thousand yuan.
Wang Zhenxi, 34, is an emotional consultant. Due to her emotional hurt years ago, in order to let other families no longer experience their own tragedy, three years ago, she was totally involved in the emotional consulting industry. With her fame growing in the circle, she signed up with her partners at the end of 2016 to take charge of the business of emotional counseling.
It is understood that, on average, she will receive emotional help from at least hundreds of people a year. However, due to the limited time, she only takes over 30 people's demands, about 20 of which are originally intended to persuade 'the third party', hoping that she can save her soon to break up marriage.
But little three so good advice, will not be reduced to little three, there are many people who are unrepentant. In order to be confident, she has developed many solutions to different problems.
Negotiation is the most common way for Wang Zhenxi to persuade the 'third party'. She usually changes her roles, infiltrates herself into the work and life of the 'third party', and then negotiates with the other party.
Wang Zhenxi said: 'in most cases, we will contact & lsquo; the third party & rsquo; as a friend or relative of the client. 'however, it's not easy to meet' the third party ',' some people only agreed to meet them after making more than a dozen phone calls, while others only agreed to talk on the phone, and they didn't want to meet at all. '
20 junior middle school students a year
In the process of work, Wang Zhenxi will also help the petitioner to restore the marriage through another way. 'it's a common thing to eat with them, go shopping and buy clothes. Wang Zhenxi said that sometimes insisting on helping female clients to rebuild their personal image is also a more effective way to save the marriage crisis.
Narrative therapy, music therapy, Morita therapy and other methods are commonly used by Wang Zhenxi. For this reason, she has placed a massage chair and a zither in an office. When there is a client coming, she will make a cup of coffee for the client and ask the assistant to play music for him. 'let customers relax before opening up. '
In addition, Wang Zhenxi also met a man who asked for help. She said that there was a boss who was a business enterprise some time ago. He hoped that I could persuade the third party away from him. Recalling the situation at that time, Wang Zhenxi felt that some people and things that she met in recent years were really incredible... However, because she also experienced emotional injury, she felt a sense of achievement in her heart when she helped clients recover a relationship.