Early this morning, Tang Yan brushed the screen with the news that she was pregnant. Some people say that it is very common for star pregnancy to be delayed. People have the right to privacy, and it has been said since ancient times that they can't tell others in the early stage of pregnancy. Why? Why can't you say in the first three months of pregnancy? What should I pay attention to when I'm just pregnant?
Why can't you say it in the first three months of pregnancy?
My best friend Qiu Qiu was pregnant. When she called me, her voice was very low: 'I tell you, don't tell Xiao Wan. Her big mouth can let everyone know. My mother-in-law said that you can't talk nonsense in the first three months of pregnancy. No one except your family will tell you! " Qiuqiu has been pregnant for more than a year. She resigned from her job. Now she is finally pregnant. This is a great wedding. Why doesn't her mother-in-law let her say?
Tang Yan has been covering up the news of her pregnancy. Maybe it's not to surprise the fans, but to have her own careful thinking. Like the ball, there are no more than these three reasons.
1. My mother-in-law won't let me say
The older generation believes that the fetus is blessed by God from the beginning of pregnancy, which is called the fetal God. Until the child is 100 days old. The fetal God will silently guard the broken baby and take care of him when he grows up. If you pass the news of 'Pregnancy' to relatives and friends when you are just pregnant, the fetal God will be angry or even leave and no longer protect the fetus.
Therefore, for the health of the fetus in the abdomen, after learning the news of pregnancy, the elderly will immediately dissuade: 'don't spread it! It annoys the fetal God and is bad for the baby! " Now young couples may not believe this, but in order to take care of their elders' feelings, they will also choose to do what they say and keep this little secret for the first three months.
2. High early risk
Early pregnancy is also the period with the greatest risk of abortion. The fetus in this period can not be called a fetus, but only an embryo. It is attached to the uterine wall and is vulnerable to external stimulation. Therefore, it is generally recommended to rest more in the first three months of pregnancy, less participate in more activities and heavy physical labor, so as to avoid the extrusion of the fetus by external forces, leading to abortion.
When I was pregnant with Dabao, I basically lay at home for the first three months because progesterone was low and there was some bleeding. The doctor suggested that I stay in bed more. When my father came back every day, I could walk out for ten minutes. I had to be very careful.
3. Take care of your emotions
In the early stage of pregnancy, due to the action of progesterone, the pregnant mother's mood is unstable, and she doesn't know much about the baby's development. She will often be moody and sensitive. At this time, tell your friends the news of pregnancy in advance. The pregnant mother's psychological pressure is too great, resulting in hormone changes, which will affect the division and development of embryos.
When I first conceived Dabao, I was nervous every day, especially when my husband asked how the baby was today? Fetal movement can not be felt in the early stage, and the pregnant mother knows nothing about the development of the fetus. Later, when she was pregnant for 8 weeks, she went to have a prenatal examination to ease her heart. Everything was normal for the baby. There were fetal heart and buds!
If you tell your friends in advance, and the baby has an accident in the end, it will do great harm to the mother, so it is not recommended to tell outsiders too early. Why can't it be announced three months before pregnancy? Perhaps the above factors are the best for pregnant mothers.
What should I pay attention to when I'm just pregnant?
At the beginning of pregnancy, the baby's nutrition needs are enough to be absorbed from the mother's blood, so there is no need to add additional nutrition, so mothers don't worry about whether the baby will be malnourished. Folic acid should be supplemented in time until the third month of pregnancy, which can prevent neonatal vascular malformation.
B-ultrasound is recommended as early as 7 ~ 8 weeks. If it is too early, you may not see the fetal heart and bud, and you have to run again. Tang Yan is now 35 years old. If she is pregnant with a baby, she is also an elderly pregnant woman. She must be more punctual for prenatal examination.
If you are in good physical condition, go out more and breathe fresh air, which is very helpful to relieve your mood.