Can we share a room at the beginning of pregnancy? We can't share a room at the beginning of pregnancy.
The mother to be writes down the reason and harm of not being able to share a room at the beginning of pregnancy. She should firmly say no to her husband. As for the reason, I will know after seeing the harm of going out to the same room during pregnancy.
First: in the early stage of pregnancy, sharing a room may cause the infection of the birth canal of the parturient, which may lead to the deformity of the fetus. From the third week after fertilization to the third month of pregnancy, this period is a period of high differentiation of various cells of the fetus, that is, the formation of various organs, which is a very important period. All kinds of stimulation may lead to deformity, including infection.
Second: in the early stage of pregnancy, after orgasm of sexual life, the pregnant woman will cause contraction of vagina and uterus, which may also cause abortion. If the action is too rough, its own mechanical stimulation may also cause abortion. In the first three months of pregnancy, on the one hand, the placenta is not mature, the connection between placenta and uterine wall is not close, on the other hand, the secretion of progesterone is insufficient, which can not give strong maintenance to embryo. At this time, sexual life may cause abortion.
According to clinical statistics, the abortion rate of couples who have sex within 3 months of pregnancy is about 30%. General doctors suggest that the first three months of pregnancy and 37 weeks after the end of pregnancy should not share a room.
What to do in the early stage of pregnancy
In the early stages of pregnancy, I had sex without knowing that I was pregnant. After confirming the pregnancy, the mother to be may be afraid later. What should I do if I share the same room at the beginning of pregnancy? Will I miscarry? Will my baby be deformed?
1. No adverse reactions after rooming: if there is no physical discomfort (such as abdominal pain, or vaginal infection) after rooming in the early stage of pregnancy, the mother to be can rest assured that if there is no sign of abortion or infection, it will not affect the baby.
2. Physical discomfort after rooming: in case of abdominal pain, vaginal infection, bleeding and other situations, it is necessary to consult a doctor in a timely manner to eliminate the relevant hidden dangers, and at the same time, it is necessary to do a good job in the pregnancy and childbirth examination (such as Tang's screening in 14-20 weeks of pregnancy, and color ultrasound in 22-26 weeks of pregnancy)
How to deal with the need of husband in the early stage of pregnancy
In the early stage of pregnancy, the expectant mother will suffer from the exhaustion caused by the physical changes, which will lead to the decrease of sexual desire. At this time, because the stomach has not yet grown large and the characteristics of pregnancy are not obvious, some expectant fathers may continue to target their mother for 'sexual harassment' because they do not realize the existence of the baby, and face the lustful husband who cannot extricate himself. Mothers can try the following ways:
1. The expectant mother should stick to her stand and convey the danger of sharing a room at the beginning of pregnancy to her husband.
2. Guide the father to be into the role of father. Imagine together what gender the baby will be, what items will be prepared for the baby, etc., not only to guide him into the role of father, but also to divert his attention.
Can I share a room after early pregnancy
After the first three months, the baby has been closely connected with the mother, and the risk of abortion has been reduced. After the first three months of pregnancy reaction period, the mental and physical condition of the second trimester has improved. Proper sex during pregnancy has no effect on the baby.
Generally speaking, the influence of pregnant women's sexual life on the fetus is mainly manifested in the first three months and the last three months of pregnancy. The first three months are easy to cause abortion of pregnant women, and the second three months often lead to premature delivery of pregnant women, and the rest of the time to have sex will not have a great impact on the fetus. But also pay attention to posture, not to let pregnant women too much pressure on the uterus, but also to pay attention to cleaning and sanitation.
Notes on rooming in the middle of pregnancy
1. When sharing a room during pregnancy, the father to be should be gentle, patient and considerate. Try not to put the weight of your body on your wife's abdomen and breasts.
2. Spend more time trying to find the most comfortable way to enjoy sharing during pregnancy. For example, use pillows to make the mother to be comfortable, while keeping the body curve of the mother to be vertical as much as possible.
3. During pregnancy, vaginal secretions increase and resistance decreases. Before sharing a room, both husband and wife should clean the vulva and keep it clean. Dad to be should not put his fingers into the vagina to avoid damaging the vagina and causing bacterial infection.
4. During pregnancy, the time and intensity of rooming should be appropriate, the movement should be gentle, and excessive stimulation should be avoided; the duration should be shortened correspondingly (1-3 minutes).
What are the positions of rooming in the early stage of pregnancy
Generally speaking, rooming is not recommended in the early stage of pregnancy, but if the parents can't help it, they should pay attention to the posture of rooming to avoid harm to the baby treasure. What are the posture of rooming in the early stage of pregnancy?
Posture 1
When pregnant, avoid putting pressure on the expectant mother's stomach, because it will endanger the safety of the mother and the baby if you are not careful. If the mother to be is up, you can control your own strength, which is safer.
Pose two
Lying on one side is the safest position, and it will not oppress the belly of the mother to be. Two people can face each other or face the same direction, so the mother to be will be more comfortable.
Pose three
Lie on the edge of the bed, one foot on the bed, the other foot hanging under the bed, support with some objects, pay attention not to press the stomach.
Pose four
Enter from behind, with hands and knees supported by mom to be, and dad to be.
Although these gestures can protect the fetus from harm in the early stage of pregnancy, for the sake of the health of the fetus and the mother to be, in the early stage of pregnancy, the father to be should be considerate of his wife and reduce his sexual life. When having sex, we should take the posture action of not pressing the abdomen, try to avoid violent roommate and improper posture, and the action should be gentle to avoid violent stimulation.