Although there are more single dogs in China, dating is also a good way to find a partner for single men and women who don't have a wide range of social contacts. What's not embarrassing to talk about when dating? For example, people who don't seem to be attractive can also rely on verbal charm and humorous expression to capture each other's heart. So, what topics are better to talk about when we meet? What topics are more successful?
What topics can we talk about when we meet? There are many topics we can talk about when we meet. We can talk about our work, life, hobbies, etc. However, it's not the most important thing to talk about when we meet. It's the atmosphere and feeling when we chat. Whether we can remember and feel the good mood at the moment.
Therefore, if you feel right, you may succeed. If you don't feel right, it's useless to talk about any good topic.
It's very important to learn how to make the atmosphere active when we meet each other. When we meet each other, we will talk about our situation, work, background, etc. No wonder you fail. Because the communication between you is too rational, and what we talk about needs thinking, so it's easy for both sides to enter into a calm atmosphere. The communication between people needs emotional interaction and communication, too deep thinking Talking, it's hard to make the atmosphere of chatting warm.
And to make the atmosphere active, we must first 'entertain ourselves'. Self entertainment and self entertainment will produce emotional fluctuations. Emotions can be transmitted and transferred to each other. You can chat with each other. In the process of communication between two people, their emotions will reach a point, which is the middle or strong side of two people's emotions.
1. It's appropriate to be merciless and self mocking. Many people like to exaggerate when they are dating. Some people are used to holding themselves in the clouds and talking about how capable they are and how many people they pursue. They think it can attract each other, but they don't know that it's just the expression of their emptiness of heart. Once they are seen through by the eyes, it's not easy to fall from the clouds to the bottom of the valley.
But merciless self mockery will make the other party think you are humorous, but if you boast, it will make the other party think that it's just like this, and self mockery will make the other party think that it's not so bad.
2. Proper humor is not difficult. What's important is that appropriate jokes and proper humor are always good weapons to open an embarrassing situation. Dating is a play, even if there may be no ending, but at least we should make the process of dating as pleasant as possible, and make it a 'comedy' rather than a 'boring play'. But how to grasp a scale is also very important. It's not good to talk about the transition. Especially when the other party is very serious and you talk about the problem, this kind of humor will make the other party feel insincere.
How to enhance the ability of self entertainment in ordinary times? Entertainment and happiness should not go through any channels of stimulation, not through the outside world. Why is it called self entertainment? It comes from the heart. Some people set high conditions for happiness. I need to win the Nobel Prize for literature to be happy. Some people set the conditions very low. My friends and I have a leisurely afternoon tea and have a good time.
There is a way to increase the ability of self entertainment, that is, to meditate and sit quietly with your eyes closed, that is, to hold on to the chair normally, not cross legged, to feel your breath all the time, that is, when there is no external stimulation at all, you can feel a kind of calmness in nature, and a kind of happiness from the heart. This kind of happiness needs any stimulation, and jobs also likes it Sit and meditate.
Recommend an interesting joke to talk about your past medical history
'I've had mental illness before!'
As soon as the tiger body of the other party is ready to flee, you can quickly say something to save the atmosphere: 'but that was ten years ago!'
When I say this, when the other side calms down a little bit, I laugh loudly and turn the table over: 'but I have been sick for ten years, ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha