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How to give up those meaningless things?

In life, we always want to get a lot of things. This desire also makes us better. For example, we have more money and make more friends. But we don't have to face all people and things. We have to master as much as possible. Sometimes, giving up some things will make us better. This kind of giving up needs our firm will. So how can we give up What meaningless things?

Give up the unhealthy life style. Although we sometimes give ourselves too many excuses, we should take good care of our body from now on. It's really very important to be healthy. It's unnecessary to ignore our health for the sake of so-called major events. Eat well, work regularly and exercise more. That kind of life seems boring, but it will make us healthy.

Don't belittle our potential. Maybe when we face something, we will think that we can't do it when we encounter a sense of urgency. But what really beats us is not the reason. What's more, if we don't work hard for it and dare to face difficulties, it will definitely be unremitting time and energy to really deal with them.

Give up the fixed way of thinking, the fixed state seems to be relatively stable, but it will slowly wear out our fighting spirit, the same is true in the ability. If we don't keep the habit of improving our ability, we will eventually become mediocre, because everyone knows that we can only make our ability more and more excellent if we don't advance or retreat.

To give up the desire for control, sometimes we always want to decide anything, but this kind of firm idea is terrible. Anything, including anything, can change. If we want to keep the desire for control, it will inevitably have the opposite result. Only by keeping our personality and letting everyone have free development opportunities, can we become better and more perfect 。

To give up the behavior of wasting our time, sometimes we can save time in small details. We need to develop it slowly. Time is slowly sorted out. Those behaviors of wasting a lot of time by painting dramas must be given up quickly. In the long life, if these time occupy us too much, it will be sad. We should make good use of time.