Don't give wine as an old-fashioned gift. The older you are, the mellower you will be. The longer your friendship is, the deeper your relationship will be. But gifts are not as old as possible (except collectibles). If you give someone a gift that has been eliminated, someone must have an idea after receiving it. The other person thinks you are insulting his taste, or that you use it to satirize him. So we should keep up with the times when giving gifts.
If your friends don't like dogs, they are even allergic to dog hair. On his birthday, you spent a lot of money to buy a teddy for him. When he receives the gift, he will be embarrassed and even affect your friendship. The other side will think that you are his friend and don't even care about what he doesn't like. Therefore, before giving gifts to each other, we should simply understand each other's preferences.
Visiting patients should consider the actual situation of the patients. Pregnant women should not eat cold food after childbirth. High blood pressure patients should not eat foods with high cholesterol. Diabetes patients should not eat foods with high sugar. Patients just after surgery should not eat livestock food. If you give the gift wrong, the other person will think you don't respect him. So gifts should be sent to others' hearts.
Gifts are different from person to person. Gifts should be selected according to the identity, seniority and relationship of each other. Generally speaking, there are practical gifts for elders, commemorative gifts for lovers, interesting gifts for friends, educational gifts for children, etc.
We should pay attention to each other's customs and habits. There are 56 ethnic groups in China. Each ethnic group has its own religious and cultural beliefs and customs taboos. Before giving gifts, we need to know something about them. In order to avoid inappropriate gifts, both sides are embarrassed. For example, when the other party gets married, it is forbidden to send a "clock", because the clock means to send the dead, the other party will feel unlucky; Islam forbids eating pork; Hinduism does not eat beef, etc.
The occasion of giving gifts should pay attention to the general situation, do not give gifts in front of a third person, especially the gift service. For example, in front of a few friends or colleagues, if you only give one of them, it will be embarrassing and not conducive to the development of your relationship. Of course, if the other person is your elder, or the confirmed lover, the other person will be more happy to give gifts in front of a third person.
Therefore, in interpersonal communication, only by mastering some precautions of gift giving can we achieve the purpose of giving gifts to win good popularity.