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How to deal with the estrangement with parents?

as the saying goes: filial piety is the first, everyone's parents are really their own food and clothing parents (excluding special cases), so what should we do if there is estrangement with their parents' feelings? Here are some experiences for reference.

Whether it can be solved

The answer is usually Yes (the probability of estrangement can't be solved is very small), because as the saying goes, "tiger poison doesn't eat children", parents usually love their children forever.

Reason finding

To solve the problem, you have to tie the bell. You have to think about why there is a gap between you and your parents, and find out the reasons to deal with it. (in fact, some of them don't need to explain that they are the closest parents after all.).

Solution 1 - talk

Have a heart to heart talk with your parents to deal with the estrangement. If you haven't seen them for many years, you can often go home to have a look.

Solution 2 - eat together

Make a delicious meal for your father and mother, do your filial piety and eliminate the estrangement at the same time.

Solution 3 - birthday

If your parents' birthday is coming, it's more meaningful to celebrate it for them.

Solution 4 - give gifts

Give some small gifts or things your parents need, your father and mother of course know the meaning.