1、 To learn to think about transposition
When two people get along with each other, sometimes there are some small frictions. Maybe they feel aggrieved and feel that the other side doesn't care about their feelings and can't really understand themselves. It's like they like to eat fish and ask the other side to eat fish every day like themselves. What's their feeling? Not everything can be developed according to one's own will. One should learn to think in other's place.
2、 Understand each other
Both sides have paid for the family. Generally speaking, both men and women are in charge of the family. Everyone has paid for the family. Men need to understand that women have paid time and energy for the family and their own freedom, as well as their youth. Sometimes, there are inevitably many complaints in their hearts. When facing the complaints of women, they should understand whether they feel upset or impatient. Men In order to let his wife and children live a happy material life, it's not easy to fight outside. When a man comes home, a woman should give more gentleness and care, rather than just scolding.
3、 Trust each other
For avoiding difficulties, women should not always question their husbands with a skeptical attitude. Instead, we should give each other more understanding and care. We can say to the husband, & lsquo; & rsquo; husband, you have worked hard for this family, but you should pay attention to your health. The wife is worried about you & lsquo;
4、 We need to surprise each other occasionally
Many couples are romantic when they are in love, but after marriage, there are no other activities or topics except for firewood, rice, oil, salt, soy sauce, vinegar and tea. Is it really a tomb after marriage? No, it's entirely a matter of personal attitude towards life. Marriage is the continuation of love. On the contrary, marriage needs more romantic nourishment to keep fresh for a long time. On festivals or wedding anniversaries, you can surprise and romance your lover, send some roses, or jewelry that your lover always wants to buy but is reluctant to buy.
5、 Create more time and space for two people
Create more time and space for two people's world. When Kenny couple has children, they seldom have time and space to be alone together. They can create more personal space for two people, talk about their inner thoughts and express their desires. At that time, you will find that each other's hearts have entered a lot, which can also increase their feelings Love.
6、 Be tolerant to each other
Everyone has advantages and disadvantages. In the face of each other's advantages, we need to appreciate each other, praise each other, and encourage each other to be more progressive. In the face of each other's small disadvantages, we need to learn to be tolerant. These small habits are small habits that each other has developed since childhood. Don't always grasp each other's disadvantages, and always tangle for some small things. People are not perfect. You When you see the other side's small shortcomings, the other side is also looking at your small shortcomings, so you learn to accommodate the other side, and the other side will give you feedback in the same way.
7、 Proper sex
Sexual life plays a leading role in the whole marriage life. No matter what conflicts the two parties are having, sometimes they can also mediate through sexual life, which can achieve the desired effect of both parties. Naturally, the accumulated resentment in their hearts is also resolved.