4hw.com.cn: for novice mothers, babies are the heart and soul of their mothers. They hate to hold them all the time. But for babies under one year old, it's not scientific to hold them often. What's the harm of holding them for a long time?
The harm of holding baby for a long time
Not good for children's bone growth
The baby within 3 months should not hold him often. It is better to let him lie on his back. At this stage, the baby's skeleton development is not completed, especially the cervical vertebra and spine are very soft. If you hold it often, the spine is always in a curved shape. In the long run, it is bound to be harmful to the growth of the baby's bones. In addition, the baby's head is relatively large within 3 months, the cervical vertebra and spine are not enough to support the weight of the whole head, holding too much or holding vertically for a long time is not conducive to the growth of the baby.
Therefore, when the baby is in a sleep state, the parents should not continue to hold the baby, should gently put the baby on the bed to let him sleep, which can not only make the TA's body flat, but also reduce the burden on his neck, which is more conducive to the healthy growth of the baby.
Affect the development of baby's sports ability
When the baby is under one year old, it is in a leap period of life development. At this time, if it is often held by people, it will make the baby lack of exercise and lose a lot of opportunities for sports learning. It is suggested that parents should train their baby's sports ability and do some aerobic exercises to promote the development of baby's sports ability.
Affect baby brain development
As the saying goes, life lies in exercise. Exercise is not only good for your health, but also a magic weapon for your brain. Especially for your baby, the baby who exercises more will be more intelligent. At birth, there are billions of neurons in the baby's brain, but there is no connection between them. Scientific movement can promote the connection between neurons, accelerate the development of the baby's brain, and improve the level of intelligence.
Affect baby's sleep quality
Often let you hold the sleeping baby, as time goes by, you will have a dependent mentality. Only holding coax is willing to sleep, or all kinds of noisy, so that the quality of baby's sleep is also greatly affected. Holding on to sleep is always not sleeping steadily and comfortable, the quality of sleep of the baby will decline, which will also hinder the growth and development. Long term baby's harm
How to hold a baby
Although we don't recommend holding the baby often, some noisy little babies still need adults to hold the noisy baby to have more sense of security and sleep better. Here, we should pay attention to the right way to hold the baby.
Within 3 months, it is mainly held horizontally
Within 3 months, it is mainly held horizontally. When the baby lies on his back, the mother gently inserts his left hand into his waist and buttocks, gently puts his right hand under the baby's head and neck, and slowly picks up. Then, slowly move the right hand behind the baby's head to the left arm, and let the baby's head lean against the mother's left hand. In this way, the baby's body is supported, and the head will not fall back; it will make the baby feel comfortable and full of security if it is held horizontally in the mother's arms.
3 months later
The baby can be held upright after 3 months. After the baby is full of milk, the mother sits still, slightly adjusts the baby's position, and lets the baby's butt sit on his own leg, with one hand holding his back and the other hand holding his head and neck. If you want to burp, tap your baby's back with your hand on the back. This position helps to burp and make your baby's full stomach more comfortable.
Pay attention to communication when holding the baby
Let the baby realize your love, not only more holding, but also more communication and talking with TA at the same time of holding the baby, so that the baby can not only feel your love, but also carry out language stimulation to TA, and develop the baby's brain. Otherwise, holding him 24 hours a day will not improve the relationship between parents and children.