4hw.org: many couples who are pregnant for the first time are very nervous. They are also too nervous about their houses. In fact, when you are just pregnant, you can have sex. It doesn't affect the fetus, but also increases the couple's feelings. So how long does it take to have sex? Let's have a look!
There is no scientific basis for fear of sexual harm to the fetus. Because your baby lives in a thick uterine cavity surrounded by warm amniotic fluid, which can reduce concussion and sway, you don't have to worry about your baby being disturbed. Your cervix is closed during pregnancy, and there is a lot of mucus to prevent the invasion of pathogenic bacteria. But you should understand some of the changes in pregnancy, not because of sexual life and pregnancy. (this article is edited and collated by sihai.com, reprinted and noted with source, original link: http://www.4hw.com.cn/life/)
According to experts: after pregnancy due to the role of sex hormones, pregnant women's reproductive organ blood flow is more abundant, blood vessels are congested and bulky, prone to injury and bleeding. The vagina becomes moist and accessible, and the genitals and breasts are more sensitive. If pregnant women appreciate their body shape and don't worry about contraception, they may find that sexual desire increases after pregnancy. However, some pregnant women may have low sexual desire because of their heavy response to early pregnancy, or because they are worried that they are no longer attractive, or because they are too worried about the baby in their belly. At this time, as a husband, it must not appear angry or depressed. We should understand the wife and give her more emotional support and physical caress. We must not affect the relationship between husband and wife due to the reduction of sexual life during pregnancy.
When can't you have sex?
What should be paid attention to in addition to not too violent sexual life during pregnancy? Experts believe that the first three months of pregnancy and the last two months of pregnancy. Patients with abdominal pain or vaginal bleeding, or when doctors think there is a possibility of miscarriage or premature delivery; pregnant women with multiple miscarriages or premature delivery history should pay attention to reduce the possibility of miscarriage or premature delivery again; those with placenta previa and other obstetric reasons are not suitable for rooming; those with serious complications. (this article is edited and collated by sihai.com, reprinted and noted with source, original link: http://www.4hw.com.cn/life/)
What should be the sexual life style during pregnancy?
Experts pointed out that the principle of sexual life after pregnancy must be remembered, first of all, not to oppress or hit the stomach, and then not to give direct strong stimulation to the uterus. When the pregnant woman's uterus has not increased significantly, the normal position can still be taken in the same room, that is, the male position in the upper and lower position, but do not oppress the pregnant woman's stomach, and the male genitals should not be inserted too deep. After the tummy is bigger and bigger, do not press to the tummy. You can take the front position, side lying position or front sitting position, and do not move too violently. To the late pregnancy, it is also advisable to share a room at the back. If pregnant women do not want to share a room, they should never be forced. Remember that sexual life not only refers to sex itself, but also includes many areas such as sexual caress. Therefore, during pregnancy, the couple must be considerate and considerate to each other and spend the special period of their life together.
How to live a safe sex life?
(1) pregnant women and their husbands who have no taboo of popping should discharge urine, clean the vulva and male genitalia, and choose the position that does not oppress the abdomen of pregnant women. Generally speaking, the action should be gentle and not rough, the insertion should not be too deep, the frequency should not be too fast, and the time of each time should not exceed 10 minutes. Pregnant women should urinate and wash the vulva immediately after the sexual intercourse to prevent ascending urinary system infection and intrauterine infection.
(2) it's better to use condom or perform external ejaculation when having sex during pregnancy. In a word, it's better to keep semen out of vagina. This is because, after the prostaglandins in the semen of men are attracted by the vaginal mucosa, it can promote the strong contraction of the uterus after pregnancy, which will not only cause abdominal pain of pregnant women, but also easily lead to abortion and premature delivery. (this article is edited and collated by sihai.com, reprinted and noted with source, original link: http://www.4hw.com.cn/life/)
There are also tips for pregnant women to have sex
For pregnant women's sexual life, has always been a matter of great concern to pregnant mothers. How should pregnant mothers have a safe and pleasant sexual life? What should be paid attention to?
Relevant experts pointed out that in the middle of pregnancy, as long as you remember the right sexual posture and sexual skills, pregnant mothers can have wonderful sexual enjoyment. Experts also pointed out that there is no need for abstinence during pregnancy, and couples can still maintain sexual life, but the following should be noted:
1. Sexual posture:
Scholars such as ekwo pointed out that: during pregnancy, when couples adopt the sexual posture of men up and women down, it is easy to cause early water break, which is twice as likely as other sexual postures. Therefore, it is an important principle to avoid squeezing the bulging abdomen of pregnant women. (this article is edited and collated by sihai.com, reprinted and noted with source, original link: http://www.4hw.com.cn/life/)
2. Sexual skills adopted:
***It is necessary to avoid blowing the vagina, prevent the air from permeating into the blood of pregnant women, cause amniotic fluid embolism, and cause death of pregnant women. In medicine, there are case reports, so we should try to avoid it.
In addition, does the intensity of sexual behavior have any risk to the fetus and limit the number of times? According to the report of scholar read and klebanoff, * * * the number of times has no absolute correlation with preterm birth, even if the gestational weeks have been thirty-six weeks, it has no great influence, that is to say, the number of sexual behaviors is too many, it is not necessarily easy to miscarry or preterm birth, as long as the physical strength of the pregnant woman permits, the husband and wife coordinate well, and the number of times can be determined by themselves; As for the intensity, whether orgasm is achieved or not will not harm the fetus.
Most people worry about the influence of sexual behavior on the health of the fetus, resulting in premature delivery or abortion, mostly due to the psychological factors of pregnant women and traditional concepts.