Since ancient times, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have been natural enemies. How can they live in harmony? Marriage is no longer a matter of two people, but of two families. If your family and his family get married, it means that they will enter into a tangible and intangible war.
The relationship between mother and daughter-in-law, a world-class problem that spans time and space, consumes countless women's brain cells and energy, remains unresolved. Therefore, many women secretly swear before marriage that they can never live with their mother-in-law after marriage. But even so, the problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has to be faced. In these four words, a wise woman will never say to her mother-in-law:
1. Mom, you don't understand these things. Don't worry so much
2. When talking to your husband, say your mother & hellip;
3. Mom, your previous one is no longer working. Now you are using new methods
4. Mom, I'm in charge of my own children & hellip;
In fact, the healthiest way for mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to get along is to get along like mother and daughter-in-law. Mother-in-law is not 'black as crows', and smart women will become mother-in-law's intimate little padded jacket.
Therefore, the mother-in-law will treat such a daughter-in-law as half a daughter, hoping to teach her more life experience. If the "two sides are willing" is the best, the family is harmonious, the husband can work more smoothly, and the child studies harder.
Son is the bridge between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law
To understand this: their parents must be filial. Many men have the idea that it's not easy for my parents to raise me, so you should be filial to my parents. In fact, after all, there is no logic in this sentence.
A woman married into the home, she and your parents have no blood relationship, 'this is not a family', because of your relationship, just 'walk into a door', your parents pull you up hard, why need daughter-in-law to take care of, not you to take care of?
Husband and wife should respect each other, understand each other, have business and quantity, so as to run a family well.
What should a really smart man do when there is a conflict between his mother-in-law and his daughter-in-law?
Two are important women in your life. One is the woman who accompanies you for the first half of your life, and the other is the woman who accompanies you for the second half of your life. Who is willing to say wrong? Therefore, once there is such a small friction in the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the position of being a son is too important.
From the standpoint of mother-in-law, the wife is wronged and helpless; from the standpoint of wife, the mother is bitter.
Therefore, it is not easy for both women to please each other, to agree with and say good things about their wives in front of their mothers, and to agree with and expose their mothers in front of their wives.