Influenced by the traditional Chinese concept, Chinese parents seldom carry out sex education for their children. How old is the best time to carry out sex education for their children? In fact, sex education for children is a necessary relief in the process of healthy growth. Only by eliminating the traditional concept can children grow up more healthily.
The sexual psychologist's suggestion is that the best sex education for children starts before the age of five. It can effectively avoid sexual psychological distortion by helping children identify with their resume sexual roles as soon as possible Related article link: http://www.4hw.com.cn/life/jiankang.html
Building a healthy sexual psychology should be in the early stage, 'especially before the age of five', which is a 'particularly important and effective period'. According to sexual psychologists, the influence of sexual psychology formed in early childhood has spread for decades; the distortion of sexual psychology in childhood often shows its bad effects when growing up.
Sexual role dislocation. First of all, infants are identified with constructive roles. In the process of socialization, children should understand that people are divided into men and women, recognize and accept their gender, and define their own speech and behavior according to the requirements of the society for sexual roles. Most parents choose their children's names, buy clothes, toys, and dress up according to the requirements of boys or girls, which enables children to successfully establish sexual role identity. But some parents take their likes and dislikes as the transfer, and give the boy the feminine name. The dress is the girl's standard. The toys and games are the girl's, and the speaking and walking requirements are the woman's cavity and the woman's posture. As a result, the boy's sexual psychology is distorted. When he grows up, he becomes a "cream baby". The light ones become gay, while the heavy ones suffer from heterosexuality and transsexuality. In the same way, some parents value boys over girls and dress girls as boys. When they grow up, there are many sexual perverts Related article link: http://www.4hw.com.cn/life/jiankang.html
Distorted sexual cognition. The sexual curiosity of infants is a part of sexual cognition. The traditional concept of sex is closed, repressed and mysterious. Once the baby appears to play with the external sex organs to satisfy the thirst for knowledge, the parents angrily stop saying: 'dirty is dead!' when the baby puts forward the sexual problems such as why the male and female external sex organs are different, where the child is born, etc., the parents not only do not explain, but also scold and say: 'shameless. This is very harmful to children's early formative psychology. There is no doubt that it will make children form the concept that external sexual organs are dirty and sexual activities are ugly. Once distorted sexual psychology, sexual repression and sexual fear are formed, they can cause adverse effects on human life. Women's sexual dysfunction such as frigidity and low sexual desire, and men's sexual dysfunction such as impotence, sexual fear and premature ejaculation are all closely related to the sexual experience of young children.
Mother and child channel experts remind: Children's sexual curiosity can not be blamed, parents should create more opportunities to expand and deepen children's sexual awareness.