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How to deal with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law

Good relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can make the family more harmonious and the relationship between husband and wife more harmonious. Many young people don't know how to deal with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Here are 10 tips for dealing with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. As a daughter-in-law, you can have a look.

1. In front of my mother-in-law, I should show my love for my husband, which is certain. But let mother-in-law know that you love her as much as your husband;

2. In front of her mother-in-law, she should say more good things about her husband. Every mother doesn't like to hear others say bad things about her son;

3. In front of the mother-in-law, you must have the stomach, because every mother who has raised her son through hard work can get it done in a few days, and she will feel robbed. That is what people often say (husband is the world, son is all);

4. Always stand on the mother-in-law's side in front of the mother-in-law. If there is a conflict between the husband and the mother-in-law, you must criticize the husband to comfort the mother-in-law. Because many mother-in-law will think that the son's transformation is due to the daughter-in-law, so we must let mother-in-law know that you are on the same line with her, so that she will help you when you have difficulties in the future;

5. Don't make love with your husband in front of your mother-in-law. That will cause her to be jealous. She has brought up your husband since she was a child, but how many times has she kissed her mother's face since her son grew up? So pay attention to closing the door and follow you;

6. In front of your mother-in-law, you must make her feel that you are her daughter. Treat your mother as you like. Sometimes you can have a little temper in front of your mother, but you should be moderate to your mother-in-law, because it may cause dissatisfaction and affect your feelings with your husband;

7. Fully reflect her importance to you, which will make mother-in-law have a sense of achievement and satisfy her feelings of loving her son;

8. Sometimes you should learn to be coquettish in front of your mother-in-law. There is no need to be strong like a shield in front of your mother-in-law. You can't rub a bit of sand in your eyes. You should attach great importance to small things. In this way, your mother-in-law will worry about you because of your way, and admire you because of your own ideas;

9. Don't complain with your husband if you have any problems with your mother-in-law. That will only increase your husband's distress, and may make your relationship more complicated. Try to communicate with your mother-in-law yourself, and talk more about your happy things with your husband. He will believe in your ability to deal with affairs and cherish you more, because you are a rare and virtuous wife;

10. If the mother-in-law is an unreasonable old lady, just tell her that you are all her son's favorite women, and your relationship will directly affect her son's happiness. If you want her son to have a miserable life, just let her go!