When it comes to premarital cohabitation, some people always agree and some oppose it. Those who agree naturally see the benefits of premarital cohabitation, while those who oppose it agree that premarital cohabitation has many disadvantages. In fact, premarital cohabitation has good and bad:
1、 Benefits of premarital cohabitation
1. After cohabitation, two people will communicate more and better integrate into each other's circle, so their feelings may be more stable.
2. One of the great advantages of being around your boyfriend is that no matter what problems you have, someone will help you solve them. You won't feel powerless and tired.
3. For boys, with a girlfriend around, at least they won't eat instant noodles every day. On weekends, they can go out and step on a bike, press the road and release the pressure.
4. If you want to clearly understand what kind of person the other party is, you can observe it after living together for a period of time. Therefore, cohabitation before marriage is the best way to thoroughly understand a person, except for those who are too deep in the city government.
2、 Disadvantages of premarital cohabitation
1. Cohabitation before marriage will affect the reputation of girls. In fact, it should be girls who lose money when couples live together. Of course, it's good to know whether they lose money or not. In fact, in many people's concept, premarital cohabitation is equivalent to premarital sex. Of course, it doesn't mean that it's OK to be a dutiful person, but when you get pregnant unexpectedly, you are forced to have an abortion. How much do you think that man loves you. Believe that a girl who is clean will not have bad luck.
2. Premarital cohabitation and final separation may cast a shadow on both sides. Cohabitation after falling in love is actually nothing, but the terrible thing is that after living together, they find that each other is not suitable for themselves. Maybe some people are very open and will still be brave to love, but for some people, they may no longer be able to love someone unconditionally as before. In particular, the other half of violence, from love to torture, life is really ups and downs, which is sad.
3. Cohabitation before marriage may be making wedding clothes for others. Even if lovers love each other very much, they always have some edges and corners, so they support each other and work together to finally smooth the edges and corners of each other, but they go their separate ways in the end, which is tantamount to making wedding clothes for others.