Original title: good people in the Three Gorges -- post-90s female 'parents' and her 84' special children '
When Xu dengxiong, a 71 year old man, died, he grabbed Li Chunrong's hand with the last trace of strength and wrote two words slowly in the palm of her hand: good man.
For these two words, Li Chunrong, born in December 1990, held a low salary and stayed at the disabled support center in Caotang Town, Fengjie County, Chongqing for four years.
Fengjie is the location of the film good man in the Three Gorges. The disabled support center where Li Chunrong is located is just west of Kuimen in Qutang gorge of the Yangtze River. There are 84 disabled people and five guarantee families who have lost their ability to work. At a young age, she accompanies and takes care of these 'special children' like 'parents'.
In the past four years, Li Chunrong successively 'sent off' 16 disabled people. When she first saw the people die here, she was still a little afraid, and then she calmed down.
Four years ago, Li Chunrong and her husband took their young son and hemiplegic mother-in-law to work in Shenzhen. At that time, she was the director of an electronic enterprise. Because her mother-in-law had lung cancer, the family returned to their hometown for Fengjie. After her mother-in-law died, her husband became a village accountant. She came here to apply for the position of dean.
In the first three days of coming to the support center, she was very uncomfortable. She was disgusted at everything. She didn't eat a mouthful of rice. She lost more than ten kilograms in a month. But now, she does everything from bathing, dressing, feeding and helping to go to the bathroom.
When the violent Chen Qingxiu came to the support center, he was unkempt. Li Chunrong took her to take a bath. She couldn't live or die. She bit Li Chunrong's wrist and almost bit blood, but Li Chunrong still took a great patience to help her take a bath. Now, Chen Qingxiu fell in love with bathing. As long as Li Chunrong shouted, he obediently walked to the bathroom.
She taught Lu Ling, a 20-year-old mentally retarded youth, to use a spoon. When eating, there was no rice on the table, but a spoon. She handed the spoon to Luling from different angles and asked him to hold it. At first, the spoon grew old. After practicing for two months, Luling, who had not used the spoon for 10 years, held the spoon in his hand for the first time and put a mouthful of rice into his mouth.
It's hard to imagine why a young, beautiful and beautiful girl does such dirty, tired and hard work? Besides, I only earn 2400 yuan a month!
She never thought of giving up! Now the couple earn a total of four or five thousand yuan a month and have to raise two children. The pressure of life is really great. " Where can't you earn two or three thousand yuan? You can earn so much by doing anything, such as helping people look at the store and selling clothes. You don't have to work so hard. " She said.
But the reluctance to give up this group of 'special children' made her choose to stick to it.
The disabled people in the support center were even more reluctant to give up her. A few days ago, Zhong Jun, a 28 year old mentally retarded youth, was taken home by his mother and prepared to come back after the new year. But he only stayed at home for two days, crying and shouting and gesturing to go back. His mother had no choice but to send him back.
In the autumn of 2017, Li Chunrong gave birth to his second son and stayed in the intensive care unit for one month because of dystocia. A family member of a disabled person came to the hospital and gave her 200 yuan, which she resolutely refused. The next day, the family member brought a basket of their own native eggs and said, 'this is not a bribe to you. We are both women. I don't think it's easy for you. "
The effort was rewarded, which made Li Chunrong feel a sense of achievement. Now, what she despises most is the person who despises her job.
Last May, the support center recruited five new nurses. One of them, a woman in her 40s, looked at the environment here and began to cry. She said, what are these people? She hasn't even served her parents like this. Near noon, Li Chunrong told her not to cry and to leave after lunch. In the canteen, the woman couldn't swallow the food and began to complain again. Li Chunrong said, 'you can give up, but don't look down on these people. These people are like our parents. Although they have disabilities, they also have dignity! "
Another nurse only worked for a day and a half and couldn't hold on. She was embarrassed to resign to Li Chunrong. Li Chunrong told her, 'you're great!'
In the support center, she also had very sad times. After several disabled persons checked in, their families did not come to see them once. When they see other people's families coming, they will hide in the corner and cry.
Seeing these situations, Li Chunrong wanted to cry. She secretly told herself that she could not cry in front of the people in the support center. Some people were pessimistic and must make everyone happy.
'They need me. That's the value of my existence. ' She said, 'actually, I need them too.'
In the past two years, Li Chunrong has a good reputation in the circle. Some kangyangji ideas' dig 'her. The treatment is very good, but she is reluctant to leave here and chooses to continue to stick to it.