Recently, a small video was wildly spread on the Internet. At a wedding banquet in Yancheng, Jiangsu Province, my father-in-law was suspected of being drunk, and even the wedding host was dumbfounded when he forced kisses on his daughter-in-law in public. At one time, the two families began to fall into a scuffle. It can only be said that such a father-in-law is inferior to an animal. It is estimated that the relationship between the two men will be severed in the future!
This act of indecency is disgusting. Whether it's' drunken promiscuity 'or' true color display ', it can't be just a joke, nor just a general' marital disturbance '. It's a shameless act that breaks through the moral bottom line, and it's a blatant indecency that violates the bride's human dignity!
This is a solemn and sacred wedding. We should pay attention to the occasion of etiquette and shame. As the father of the bridegroom and the father-in-law of the bride, if he even kisses the bride in public, can he be forgiven if he drinks too much? The father-in-law kisses his daughter-in-law, which is incest! Moreover, at the wedding ceremony, in front of the public, this is challenging the moral bottom line of the society!
Yes, drunk people are prone to make mistakes. If it's just a small mistake, it can be forgiven, but it's too unusual and outrageous. Such absurd things, normal people never think about and can't do, because they have basic sense of shame, know that the bottom line is the high-voltage line, and never touch it.
If he can do such a ridiculous thing, he can't simply explain it by "drinking too much", but only by his nature. It's just an excuse to drink recklessly. He can't even talk about "drunken promiscuity", but shows his true colors!
The father-in-law hugs the bride and kisses her at her son's wedding. Suddenly, the emcee is stunned on the spot, but the guests sitting under the stage not only don't stop it, but cheer and clap loudly. Obviously, the guests are looking at it with the attitude of "watching and bustling". They may think that although this kind of behavior is "excessive", it can also be understood as a kind of "marriage and bustling", so it is not necessary to be serious.
In recent years, there have been many cases of "marital strife". In June last year, a video of a bridesmaid suspected of being sexually assaulted on her chest was posted on the Internet. The video shows that in the car, two men sit beside the bridesmaid separately, strip off their clothes and attack their chests. The bridesmaid yells and even bites one of them's arms, but they fail to stop them.
Whether it's "Bridesmaid attacking the chest" or "father-in-law kissing his daughter-in-law", it's not "marital strife" in the general sense, but "moral strife" or even "legal strife" beyond the bottom line. Especially in this incident, from the moral point of view, it is to be vulgar, from the legal point of view, it is to be openly indecent, and the impact is very bad. If such immoral things can be easily understood, what is the bride's personal dignity? What is the dignity of the law?
In a word, weddings should take "ceremony" as the priority, and the "non ceremony" behavior that breaks through the moral and legal bottom line on weddings should not be only seen as a joke, otherwise, the same farce will continue to be staged, and "vulgar" will eventually become the "custom" that people can see and even "hear and see".