In modern society, maybe we are far away from the ivory tower life. Many men and women will find their true love by dating. So what are the precautions and taboos for boys when they first meet? What can we do to make them like you in front of the girls they like?
Taboo 1: dress casually or exaggeratively
Everyone doesn't want to see each other come to the appointment wearing shabby jeans (especially the one that hasn't been washed for several weeks) and crumpled pickled dry T-shirt. The proper dress is to respect each other's performance. If you dress casually and don't decorate at the first meeting, you don't care about the appointment at all. Unless there are special dress regulations (such as high-end restaurants, concert halls, etc.) in the dating place, you don't need to wear too formal (such as a full suit) or too gorgeous (full of jewels), which makes people feel that you are serious, or noble, and hard to get close to.
Taboo 2: be late and make excuses
No matter what kind of occasion you attend - meeting, interview or appointment, being late is absolutely taboo. Most people associate latecomers with negative personality traits such as distrust, irresponsibility, and lack of self-discipline. Besides, everyone's time is precious. Who wants to waste it on a person who can't even keep time.
Taboo 3: talk about your own business
Dating is to let two people get to know each other by the chance of chatting and interacting, but if you are the only one who keeps talking and expressing your own ideas in the whole process, how do you know him or her? It may also make the other person think you are a narcissist who is only interested in yourself and loves to show up. Some people cover up by talking all the time because they are too nervous, but this is not a good way.
Taboo 4: don't let her think there is a private detective today
You frequently inquire about each other's monthly income, deposits, education background, whether there is a car or a room, where their parents work, and how many & hellip; & hellip; beauties of their brothers and sisters complain: God, is this person looking for a girlfriend or a house or a car?
Warm tip: you may not have any evil intention. You may think you just want to know each other better, but you have to worry too much. You will only make each other think you have ulterior motives. In fact, you only need to chat patiently. For example, you really hope that you can have brothers and sisters like other children, so that you won't be too lonely in the growing years. If she has brothers and sisters, she will definitely tell you that she doesn't have such troubles. If she is also the only child, this sentence may also hit her. You have another chat for this The topic of, so these information will be from the seemingly inadvertent chat, don't make people misunderstood.