4hw.org: many books and movies say that a man is a child who will never grow up. In fact, even if the age of the other party is not small, sometimes he plays coquetry and gambles in front of his female ticket, sometimes he is provoked by anger, and the other party doesn't know where he is wrong, so it's very important for a girl how to teach a man well!
How women teach men [communication]
I never remember what I said to you
'honey, remember to put down the toilet ring after going to the toilet. '-- said more than 1000 times
'honey, keep the dirty clothes you don't wear in the washing machine. '-- said more than 1000 times
'honey, put the used things back where they were. '-- said more than 1000 times
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Wait for similar words, why did you say it more than 1000 times, and the man still can't remember it?
Man's defense: these things are too glaring to remember!
Tips: since he can't remember you, don't worry too much. When you go to the toilet and find that the toilet ring hasn't been put down, ask him to help you put it down. When washing clothes, ask him to hand in the dirty clothes by himself. Please wait for the next time. Let him find the things he can't find for you, so slowly he will feel that it's the king to remember your instructions!
2. Sending messages in the past
'when he was in love, he always sent me messages and phone calls every day. Now, the messages I sent him are like a sea of stone!' so the women began to wonder, 'does he not love me?', does he have another woman? ', he began to get tired of me?', and so on. Do you have this problem? Do you start fighting with him at this time, when he comes to you actively Ignore him or show him a stinking face?
Man's defense: I can't always get tired of you. I want to work hard for our future, earn a lot of money, buy a car, a house and clothes for you. How can I not love you?
Tips: Women's all men, men's all women + career. Pro, I believe you understand! The message you sent, he read the heart is warm, but there is no time to return, do not care about such a small thing. You can also tell you a little trick. Next time you want to convey your lovesickness, use Weibo instead. According to the latest psychological survey, women will be upset if they don't receive a reply to the text messages sent, but the private messages sent by Weibo will not bring such side effects. Even if you don't receive the first reply from his private letters, you won't have bad emotions, but there is another one The unspeakable little romance haunts me.
3. Clearly wrong but innocent
When he did something wrong, you were very angry, but he was very innocent. It seems that he didn't understand why you were angry at all. This feeling is really helpless. If you say he's not, if you don't say he's not. At this time, women usually think that men should be Ascaris lumbricoides in their stomachs and know what they are angry with. And the man is not the roundworm in your belly, really don't know where the mistake is. Finally, women feel really lazy to quarrel with men. Let him reflect on his mistakes, ignore him, and sulk himself. Therefore, there are always four words "making trouble without reason" hanging on women's heads.
Man's defense: what are you angry with? If I do something wrong, you can tell me! How can I know if you don't say it?
Tips: men and women have different ways of thinking and habits. They need to communicate frequently to reach a tacit understanding. When you don't feel excited about what he has done, just say it. Believe that he is willing to change. Don't play the game of "you guess, you guess, you guess". Men are really not experts in this field.
4. When he was called, he never seemed to hear
When you talk to him, does he often seem to hear nothing of "soul separation"? This kind of behavior in the eyes of women is simply a performance of disrespect and indifference to themselves, which is intolerable! But psychological experts say that the performance of stupidity is just a way of men's decompression, doing nothing, thinking nothing, just being still. In fact, men just need a little quiet time alone. So women should not regard this kind of behavior as ignoring you, coming to you. The more you force him, the more he will resist, and finally become a grudge.
Man's defense: I need an independent and quiet space to 'think about life'. Please don't disturb me at this time. I love you in my heart.
Move: in this kind of time, you might as well give him a quiet space, wait for him to 'think' and then talk with him, or wash white, put on sexy clothes, in front of his eyes cast a Jiao, to ensure that he immediately return to God, obey your orders!
5. Silence and cold violence after quarrel
Quarrel is the most common thing between lovers. However, after quarrel, men's silence, even playing with the disappearing cold violence, is the most unacceptable way for women. In the eyes of men, quarreling with women is never going to take the upper hand, so they think it's better for them to keep silent and let women vent enough than to quarrel with women in a hot and violent way. Then, when both sides are calm for a few days, women's anger will disappear, and they will naturally make up as before, which is a very time-saving and labor-saving way.
Man's argument: it's not that you don't want to coax women after a quarrel, but it's very difficult for women to coax when they are angry. It's better to disappear for a few days, and then coax when the female's anger is gone, or think about the solution to the problem after disappearing for a few days.
Tips: when the communication between the two sides is not smooth, men should stop the communication to avoid the escalation of conflicts. As a smart woman, after venting, you should stop fighting with men and play a little game to attract them. For example, let him help you to see if the beef is salty enough.
Women's methods of teaching men
1. Sneak at other women's bodies when shopping
When you are not easy to coax your boyfriend to go shopping with you, he not only looks around, but also constantly looks at the body of other women. Do you have the impulse to dig out his eyes? Do you think he is disguised as saying that your body is not good? In fact, people all over the world know that men are sensory animals and are easily attracted by those devil bodies, but that doesn't mean that he doesn't like your body, What they see is' just for viewing '.
Man's defense: I said I don't like shopping. You have to ask me to go. The beautiful girls in the street jump into their eyes. Can I not look? They don't look white. Do you want to put your eyes at home when you go to the street? How can you help you choose beautiful clothes?
Tips: instead of quarreling with unrelated women, I'd like to comment with him. If he says' that woman's chest is really big ', you can tell him that it's a heavy burden. If he says' that woman is so thin ', you tell him it's all bone and hand. I believe he will understand that you are the best for him.
2. Fall asleep after love
Every time he turns his head to sleep after love, do you feel extremely sad? Think he doesn't care about your feelings at all? But according to the latest research of American sexologists, the faster men fall asleep after love, the better their physical health is, and it's better than forcing you to smoke second-hand smoke after love. Of course, experts in sexology also say that women have a slow process of passion fading after love, so it's different from men's falling asleep. Women after love long for men's embrace and gentle caress, so they can get a complete satisfaction and happiness.
Man's defense: I'm really sleepy. Can't I even sleep?
Tips: if you are dissatisfied with him sleeping on his own after love, you can directly say to him that I need you a hug after love. If you sleep on your own like this, I will feel very lost. Believe that he will understand, will hold you to sleep together. It's all about communication.
3. Keep ex girlfriend's items
There's nothing more maddening for a woman than to find out that a lover still keeps his ex girlfriend's belongings? This is to ignore the feelings of a woman naked! Psychological experts say that when a woman breaks up with her ex, she usually throws away all the things related to her because she's an emotional animal and doesn't want to be touched. But after a man breaks up with his ex, what she leaves behind is in the eyes of a man It's just a thing, because men are rational animals, so don't waste it if you can use it. Sometimes you forget that there are photos of the past in the computer, which need the current reminder to delete.
Man's defense: I don't want to see her again when I break up, so I don't want to see her and return her things. Besides, how expensive the express fee is.
Tips: don't worry about the past style that has nothing to do with your lover. It will only show that you are stingy. Since the lover thinks it's troublesome to clean up, it's better to help him clean up and throw away after discussing with the lover. How nice to start your own little life!
4. Play with the pursuer
Men pursue ambiguity, just like women pursue fashion, and the picture is a moment of freshness. Again perfect marriage, again beautiful love, time is long to end will be as plain as water. At this time, a man who is not willing to be calm, even if he doesn't actively seek this kind of seemingly ambiguous emotional game, but if he is a door-to-door seeker, he will not definitely refuse many times, which is the so-called "no initiative, no refusal, no commitment". He doesn't need to worry about leaving any handle, but can withdraw at any time and enjoy it.
Man's defense: I cherish my feelings with you very much. In fact, I don't plan to do anything. I just think it's impolite to refuse each other directly. Anyway, I didn't promise her anything.
Tips: instead of quarreling and forcing him, it's better to learn to warm up your love and surprise him from now on. Don't think that being spoiled is a woman's patent. In fact, men also need to coax. With the new excitement you bring every day, he has no interest in those ambiguous emotional games.
Women's methods of teaching men [life chapter]
1. Just play games
Men like playing games just as women like shopping. It's instinct. Playing games can stimulate men's original desire for conquest, because in primitive society, men's task is to hunt, and they look for food from morning to night every day, and the game greatly enriches men's sense of personal achievement. Therefore, when a man enters into the role of the game, he will temporarily forget all the worries and pressures, and the stimulation to the outside world will become dull, so it is difficult to respond to your call in time.
Man's defense: playing games is a way to find the greatest happiness with less effort, and it's much cheaper than shopping.
Tips: in fact, you may as well try this game, maybe your subconscious is also such a game controller, then you can really play together. But if you are really not interested in playing games, and can't bear that a man is only interested in playing games and doesn't pay attention to you, it's suggested that you complain to him after he finishes playing games. Don't get mad at him when he is playing, which will only aggravate the contradiction and make the relationship between the two people stiff.
2. Great brotherhood
As the saying goes: women are like clothes, brothers are like hands and feet. If your man is a brother