Original title: kindergarten children eat slowly and are called to the toilet to eat. The Education Bureau intervened in the investigation
According to the Chinese business daily, on October 9, some parents of Beijing TONGDI kindergarten in Dali County reported to the Chinese business daily that because the children ate slowly, the teachers asked them to eat in the toilet. Some children would eat in the toilet three times a day, which was very inappropriate. In this regard, the zoo admitted that it was indeed the case and that the matter had been handled. The supervision office of Dali County Education Bureau has been involved in the investigation.
Startled
First surprise: the child's voice is slow and bad. The doctor said it might be scalded
Xiao Li, the parent, said that her daughter went to the Experimental Kindergarten of Beijing Normal University in the west section of Fengyi Road, Dali County from the preschool class (the preschool education class before the small class) until now. About six months ago, the kindergarten was renamed Beijing TONGDI kindergarten. A month ago, my daughter said she had a sore throat and thought it was a cold, but she didn't get better after treatment for more than half a month. After going to the county hospital for examination some time ago, the doctor said that maybe the child ate too fast and his throat was scalded. It is suggested to slow down his eating in the future.
The second surprise: the kindergarten requires children to eat quickly and go to the toilet if they eat slowly
"On the evening of October 3, the child chatted with me in the car and talked about her voice. She said that she had to eat fast. If she ate slowly, she would be called to the toilet by the teacher. She also said that she had been called several times, so every time she would eat the rice in the bowl quickly, even if it was hot, she would eat it quickly. This may be the reason why her voice is slow."
Later, Xiao Li also asked several other parents. They all got the same answer from their children: children who eat slowly will be called to the toilet to eat. Parents Xiao Zhang said that there are three classes in the big class. The classroom of each class is a suite. The big room is where students go to class, eat and sleep. The small suite next door is a toilet. The toilet has three urinals and three urinals. Usually, tableware is washed on the washstand of the toilet.
Third surprise: 'sometimes I go to the toilet three times a day' this happens when I'm on the middle shift
"My child just went to the big shift in September. The child said that he was often called to the toilet for dinner. Sometimes he would go to the toilet for three meals in the morning, noon and evening. She said that the toilet tasted great and it was difficult to swallow. She also said that this happened when he went to the middle shift. Even if you eat slowly, you shouldn't go to the toilet to eat. The garden should have an explanation for this. " Xiao Zhang said it was difficult to accept such behavior in kindergarten.
On October 9, in a video provided by a parent, a child said that if he ate slowly and couldn't finish eating, he would continue to eat in the toilet. Eating in the toilet was a little disgusting and couldn't eat, but he couldn't help it. I eat slowly, so I go to the toilet for breakfast, lunch and dinner. In another video, parents asked children who had eaten in the toilet. The children in the video said many names.
Fourth surprise: 'the Education Bureau said it was true, but it was a voluntary act of the child'
On October 8, parents went to the kindergarten to discuss and hope to check the monitoring, but the kindergarten said the monitoring was damaged. On October 8, the County Education Bureau also conducted a preliminary investigation, saying that children did eat in the toilet, but they were all voluntary, and the teacher did not force them. On the afternoon of August 8, after the park monitored and repaired, some parents saw that from time to time, children came into the toilet with rice bowls, and some children came out of the toilet after eating. " Xiao Li said.
Apologize
Kindergarten side: admit it and apologize. Parents can supervise it at any time
On the afternoon of the 9th, parents Xiao Zhang told China Business Daily that on the 9th, parents went to the kindergarten to discuss. The kindergarten admitted that such incidents had occurred, apologized to parents, and promised follow-up rectification measures, which parents can supervise at any time in the future.
A person in charge of TONGDI kindergarten in Beijing said that it was indeed the case. The matter has been handled. Ask the higher education department for details.
A staff member of the preschool education unit of Dali County Education Bureau said that a complaint had been received from parents and the supervision office of the Education Bureau had been involved in the investigation.
review
Psychological expert: kindergarten practices will have a certain impact on children's psychology
Jia Yu, director of Shaanxi Family Education Research Association and national second-class psychologist, believes that the kindergarten's practice of requiring children with slow meals to eat in the toilet is inappropriate. Children's slow eating may be caused by a variety of factors and should be guided in the correct way. If it is replaced by punitive methods, such as eating in the toilet, it may not be corrected, but also be counterproductive.
From a psychological point of view, children in large classes have been able to clearly describe their experiences, indicating that this behavior has had a certain impact on children's psychology. If it is serious, it may make children fear or repel eating and toilet in the future.
Jia Yu also said that this behavior was triggered when the park asked for a meal as soon as possible for the convenience of management. Because of fear of teachers, children may eat the food immediately regardless of the cold and hot food, which is unfavorable to physical development and mental health. The kindergarten should give children sufficient space and time to correct it slowly. The situation of each child is different, and the punitive method guidance may not achieve the desired effect.
Education expert: behavior should be stopped, but exposing problems is worth pondering
In response to this problem, Liu Peng, an education expert who has worked in the education system for many years, said that the kindergarten adheres to the combination of care and education, including strengthening the cultivation of children's living habits, such as eating too slowly and looking around. The starting point of the kindergarten is good, but its behavior is wrong. First of all, eating in the toilet is unsanitary. Secondly, it will cause certain physical and mental harm to children. Care and education should be given priority to children, and such disciplinary behavior is insulting and should be stopped immediately.
Liu Peng said that kindergartens should adopt the token method (incentive policy) to correct, such as rewarding little safflower for children who eat fast and guiding children who eat slowly to change slowly. The public should not only pay attention to the practices of kindergartens and teachers. I believe their starting point is good. In fact, this matter has exposed another deep-seated problem of preschool education. How can Chinese parents accept that their children grow up in difficulties and setbacks? Therefore, we should establish a reasonable, legal and reasonable disciplinary education. The public should treat the incident rationally, not simply criticize kindergartens and teachers.