At the beginning of school, the canteen of a university in Zhejiang launched a "one person food" meal, which aroused heated discussion among netizens. Some netizens praised that the 'one-man food' canteen solved the needs of students who like to eat alone. Some netizens also thought that 'one-man food' affected students' social opportunities. On September 12, the person in charge of the canteen of the school said that the setting of "one person eating" seats responded to the needs of students and improved the utilization rate of canteen seats. (September 14, CNR)
The university canteen has launched a "one person eating" table. Some netizens think it will affect social networking. Some people say: 'I can't learn to communicate in school. What should I do after graduation?' Why is this demand satisfied? Can we cultivate giant babies who can't communicate with others after graduating from college? " I think 'eating alone' is worthy of respect. Learning to be alone and enjoy alone is the basis of communication.
'eating alone is difficult to fat' and 'eating alone is tasteless' have become a mantra, but it may not be the truth. For many people, 'eating alone with taste' is the norm. ' "Multi person food" seems lively, but it may also be the mutual perfunctory and compromise of "ineffective social interaction", or the mutual praise and attachment of "circle culture". In other words, for like-minded people, 'multi person food' is often more interesting than 'one person food'. Such social interaction can be called effective social interaction. But they don't know each other at all, but they have to eat together, or they have no common language, but they have to eat together. This kind of social interaction is ineffective. Such a 'multi person food' will only be more tasteless.
It is also not necessarily true that "happiness alone is not as good as happiness for all". Take Ma Yun's retirement farewell performance for example. He sings alone or watches star performances alone. It's obviously better to spend more fun with many employees of Alibaba. Why? Because everything is arranged according to his wishes and interests, he is the real protagonist, others are the foil, and the best thing is himself, not others. The so-called 'zhonglele' is not equal happiness. If someone doesn't want to participate in that day, or doesn't want to see Ma Yun's performance, but has to participate in it, he can't feel the happiness of 'Zhongle', but looks forward to ending early to do what he wants to do.
For college students, the necessary 'social' is indispensable, but it is more urgent to enrich themselves, enrich themselves and improve themselves. A person who doesn't even have himself, but wants to brush his sense of existence by taking part in the fun, is likely to put the cart before the horse and backfire. Moreover, in addition to eating, college students have great opportunities to engage in communication. For example, it is impossible to be alone in class. Why worry that they won't communicate with others after graduation? It's easy to worry that young people will become "giant babies". This false sense of superiority and blind worry is not a manifestation of the "giant baby" mentality?
In short, 'eating alone' can be interesting, 'enjoying alone' can be happy, and any 'communication' should be based on learning to be alone, enrich and enrich yourself. Otherwise, if you communicate for communication, you may lose yourself, it is difficult to gain real friendship, and you can't exercise any 'social skills'.