Marriage is a very happy thing, especially in summer, the peak season of marriage. Some people are planning to get married, some are planning to get engaged or propose, but many people don't understand why they should propose first? Or get engaged first? Let's have a look
1、 Engagement or proposal first
Nowadays, many young people don't know whether to get engaged or propose first? In fact, proposal and engagement are two completely different concepts, so they can not be confused. Some people think that when they propose, they represent the establishment of each other's marriage. This is an incorrect idea, because proposal is only a love oath recognized by young people, not the establishment of each other's marriage relationship. Therefore, after proposing marriage, you also need to bring your lover back home, ask your family to help hold a grand engagement ceremony, and then invite some relatives and friends to attend the engagement banquet. This is not only respect for your lover, but also officially tell all relatives and friends that you are engaged and have established a marriage relationship with the woman, The woman is now a member of her family and an opportunity to introduce her to her relatives.
2、 Definition and stress of engagement and proposal
1. Engagement is to determine the relationship between the two parties
The engagement ceremony is completely different from the proposal. The engagement ceremony is a traditional custom handed down from the past. It is also a form of establishing the marriage relationship between each other. At the same time, it also appears that each other is ready for marriage. At this time, the auspicious day of marriage can be determined. At this time, it means that the conclusion of the marriage contract has been completed. Generally, in the traditional engagement ceremony, the groom to be will give the bride to be some money to buy some clothes and jewelry, which is used by the groom to express his sincere intention of engagement. Generally, after engagement, the woman is equivalent to the man's family. Only after receiving the marriage certificate, she can move directly to the man's home. When engaged, the man also needs to buy an engagement ring for the woman to wear as a witness of the engagement. If you buy a ring when proposing, then the proposal ring can also be used as an engagement ring.
2. The proposal was made with the woman's consent
Marriage proposal is usually made by men and women who are in love. In order to express their true love for the woman, the man also includes the desire to marry the woman. At this time, the man will take some very romantic arrangements, then express his sincere love to the woman, and then pray the other party to marry himself. If the proposed woman agrees to marry that share, Then the man's proposal ceremony is successful, and then we can prepare for engagement and marriage. When proposing marriage, the man will generally buy a proposal ring for the woman to wear. If the woman agrees with the man's proposal, the man will wear the ring on his middle finger.
The ceremony and language of engagement and proposal are not very important, because what they need most is their sincere heart. The above is about engagement or proposal first, and the definition and stress of engagement and proposal. I hope it can help you friends in need.