A survey shows that during pregnancy is the time when men are most likely to cheat. Because the whole pregnancy is nearly a year, sexual life should be controlled or even stopped, so some men are difficult to meet. Once the physiological needs are not met, many men will get pleasure and pleasure through cheating!
Survey: wife pregnancy is the most likely time for a man to cheat
Most of the couples who are ready to raise their children are aged 25-35, which is the peak of sexual desire in their lives. Because the whole pregnancy period is nearly one year, the sexual life should be controlled or even stopped, so some men are hard to be satisfied. In addition, when the wife is pregnant, her body shape changes. When she is anxious or upset, she will vent to her husband, which will also bring pressure to the man. According to a survey released by Taiwan's Yahoo health, a wife's pregnancy is the most likely time for a man to cheat.
A time table for expectant mothers to have sex during pregnancy
Many men who cheat in their wives' pregnancy give reasons when their sexual needs are not met. It is true that women should abstain in some periods of pregnancy, but in the middle period, they can share a room. When can they share a room during pregnancy?
1. It is not suitable to have sex at the first 3 months of pregnancy and 3 months before delivery
Experts in obstetrics and Gynecology say that sex at the first three months of pregnancy and three months before delivery is not recommended. At the first 3 months of pregnancy, the embryo implantation is not stable, strong sexual life will stimulate the strong contraction of the uterus and cause abortion. At the same time, men's semen contains prostaglandins, which also induce and strengthen uterine contraction. Three months before delivery, due to the change of estrogen secretion and low sexual desire of women, men should not force them to have sex. And at this time pregnant women's uterus is relatively large, in sexual life will be injured due to violent external force, it is easy to premature. In addition, it may also cause placental abruption, which is a relatively serious obstetric complication, which may cause massive bleeding of pregnant women or even death of pregnant women and fetus.
2. Enjoy 'gentle sex' during the middle 4 months of pregnancy
'but it doesn't mean that you can't have sex all the time during pregnancy, and abstinence is not good. "Experts suggest that you can try to have sex from the 4th month to the 7th month. After 3 months of pregnancy, the embryo has been formed. The fetus needs to develop and grow in the uterine cavity. Generally, the uterus will go up to the abdominal cavity. At this time, having sex will not affect the health of the fetus.
However, the sexual life during pregnancy is not the same as usual. The husband should be more gentle and caring for his wife. On the psychological level, pregnant women are sensitive, emotional unstable, easily nervous, and have a lot of concerns about sexual life, so husbands should pay attention to adequate 'foreplay' during sexual life; on the physiological level, pregnant women's vaginal secretions increase, and the chance of infection in sexual life increases, so before sexual life, both husband and wife should drain urine, clean genitals, and have pregnancy after sexual life The woman should wash the vulva in time.
Experts remind that in terms of sexual life style, you should choose the position of sexual intercourse that does not oppress the abdomen of pregnant women. It is recommended to use the side lying or back entering position, which not only does not oppress the abdomen of pregnant women, but also can effectively stimulate their sensitive zone. In addition, the intensity of sexual life should not be too large, the speed should not be too fast, and the time should not exceed 10 minutes.
3. Abstinence during pregnancy
Moderate orgasm will cause uterine contraction, which is a kind of exercise to the fetus. Healthy pregnant women can have sex completely. The study points out that some cases of fetal injury caused by sexual life mostly occur in pregnant women with diseases. Therefore, high-risk pregnant women should not have sex during pregnancy. For example, pregnant women with a history of abortion, vaginal bleeding, pain in sexual intercourse, and pregnant women with pregnancy complications (such as pregnancy with hepatitis, heart disease and high blood pressure) should avoid having sex during pregnancy.
If pregnant women have perineum and vaginal infection, they should be cured before resuming their sexual life, because the pumping action of penis and the contraction of vagina may bring bacteria into the uterus, causing fetal infection. Experts suggest that the best way to have sex during pregnancy is to wear condoms, one to avoid infection, the other to prevent prostaglandins in semen from entering the body of pregnant women and causing premature birth.
4. It is not suitable to have sex within 42 days after childbirth
Postpartum, maternal need a recovery period, at this time do not advocate early recovery of sexual life. Generally speaking, the perineum wound of the puerpera and the abdominal wound of the cesarean section will be completely healed within 4 weeks after delivery. After 6 weeks, the uterus will return to normal. Therefore, it is suggested that after 6 weeks, i.e. 42 days, the lochia should be completely discharged before sex. Early 'abstinence' is not only harmful to wound recovery, but also may lead to vaginal rupture and massive bleeding.
Although we know that women can't share a room most of the time during pregnancy, it can't be an excuse for men to cheat. It's the common responsibility of both husband and wife to have a child. It's also the way to a happier life. Don't let the child become the fuse of the couple's emotional breakdown.