In addition to men in the world is a woman, and a person's gender is male or female, is the sperm and egg combination that moment has been set things. Until recently, there was a personal accident, which made me doubt it. I've never heard of such a thing. It's amazing~
His name is Xu Wentao. He is 46 years old. He is neither a complete woman nor a complete man. His medical diagnosis is hermaphroditism, which is commonly known as androgyny.
His current gender is male, but she has not stopped struggling for decades because she is bound in the body, and the female sexual characteristics are becoming more and more obvious in recent years. He had been confused and doubted, but he finally made a decision to have an operation, liberate her and be himself.
Recently, I had two long talks with him, and really got to know him who was strong, confident and heartbreaking.
He has been different from other boys since he was a child
I met him for the first time in my office. It was a Saturday afternoon, we had a simple chat for an hour, I had a general understanding of him.
It was a bit hot that day. The girls on the road outside the window had changed into colorful spring clothes. In front of me, he is also very bright. He has a red striped T-shirt, black tights, and a pair of red high-heeled shoes (slope heel, heel height 8cm), but it's a little against his bald head. As soon as we met, he waved to me warmly. The red mobile phone shell in his hand was very eye-catching. You seem to like bright colors very much? Because of his particularity, I speak with him very carefully. I can only start to talk from the most external things. Yes, red is my favorite, especially since I was a child. I never thought that he had no taboo about his situation and said a lot frankly.
He said that his family is in the countryside of Xi'an. There is a sister above and a sister below. He is the only boy in the family. However, he was different from other boys since he was a child. He didn't like to play with little boys, but preferred to play with little girls, playing house, jumping rubber band and kicking shuttlecock.
What's more, he has an inexplicable love for women's products. He can't put down the little girl's skirt, shoes, headband, etc., and often puts his sister's skirt on his body.
But at that time, the family thought it was a child who was naughty, and didn't care. When he grew up, he began to think that it was wrong to wear women's clothes in front of outsiders, but he had an irrepressible impulse to like and wear them, so he would avoid adults to wear them secretly on weekends.
After puberty
He has stomachache for a few days every month. It's not unreasonable for me to use late maturing, weak gender awareness and other reasons for my abnormal behaviors when I was a child. But as I grew up, the problems exposed became more difficult to understand. He said, shaking his head.
After puberty, he will have a stomachache once a month. It seems that there is a needle in his small stomach, which makes him very unstable and fixed in the days around the 15th. For this reason, he has been very confused, until he was diagnosed as hermaphroditism, he suddenly realized that it was the legendary aunt who came in those days.
When he became an adult, he grew up to be a young man in his 20s. His parents were anxious to have a grandson and urged him to start a family, but he didn't act. There are two reasons: first, I don't seem to be interested in women. Even if I force myself to get along with others for a period of time, I can develop to hand in hand at most, and then I have no other idea; Second, I still have a hard word to hide. When I was born, my chicks didn't grow very obviously, and they were very short when I grew up. I went to the public toilet and public bathhouse to observe. It's really different from normal men. Therefore, andrologists have seen a lot of them. Some said that adding androgen might stimulate development, but it didn't work after a period of time, and some said it was useless It can be elongated, but I don't want to do it. When it comes to length, he also uses his hands.
In addition, he is more obsessed with female products than ever before. During the chat, he showed me the shopping records of his mobile phone Taobao. The most popular ones were red or black high-heeled shoes, which were all hate Tiangao (more than 12cm high). I prefer this style. In the past, when my income was good, I used to spend two or three thousand yuan a month to buy it. Now my income is low, and I can only spend a few hundred yuan a month. I have no less than 100 pairs of similar shoes. Can you believe it? When it comes to his beloved high heels, he looks like a woman.
During the conversation, he took a look at the flat shoes on my feet. Like a big sister, he said earnestly: little sister, I have to advise you that women must wear high heels to have more temperament. For a moment, I was speechless.
Unexpected findings in physical examination
Let decades of confusion be relieved
When it comes to his obsession with women's products, I have to talk about my second meeting with him in his rental house in the north of the city. This is a space of 20 square meters. The entrance is a simple kitchen and toilet. There are a single bed and a small desk with drawers in the remaining 10 square meters.
By the bedside, the snakeskin bags were built high, occupying half of the room. These are all my treasures. With that, he opened one of the bags and excitedly showed me the high-heeled shoes, women's clothes, all kinds of silk stockings, women's bags and wigs in it, which made me feel inferior as a woman.
This is her as a man
He said that he loved women's clothes, and even more he loved to change into women's clothes. He felt that he was very confident and charming. When night falls, he will change into women's clothes, put on a wig, put on a delicate make-up for himself, and then get on high heels to go out for a turn. Once, he stepped on hetiangao and went to the West Lake. On the way, several middle-aged men were secretly looking at him. He thought it was a good feeling.
That day, in front of me, he changed into a woman's dress, put on a breast, put on a bra, coupled with a floral dress, black stockings, big wavy brown curly hair, plus a pair of black stilettos, full of femininity. And for make-up a, he is also at arm's length, laying the foundation fluid, covering the long beard part and spreading the flame red lips … … will you blush when you make up? I'll teach you a way. It's very convenient.