Many men love their wives when they don't have money. As soon as they are rich, they start to look for a junior. Why do men easily go bad when they are rich? What are the reasons behind this? People all have their own consciousness. As long as they are not stupid, they must pursue a better life, especially in this impetuous and fast-paced era. People's potential consciousness of comparison also plays a decisive role.
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Q: why do men easily go bad when they have money?
Viewpoint 1: first of all, I personally think: it's not that men get worse as soon as they have money! But that people get worse as soon as they have money!
OK, now let's talk about why men get worse as soon as they have money
People have their own consciousness. As long as they are not stupid, they must pursue a better life, especially in this impetuous and fast-paced era. There are also some potential determinants of awareness.
In fact, there are many reasons for a man to become bad! Because of money, his range of activities has become wider, that is to say, he can do a lot of things, such as: chasing girls, drinking and having fun... This also makes more chances of deterioration. If you have 20 and you need 20 to fill your stomach, you probably won't do anything else. After all, it's important to live. But if you have 20W, you may fill your stomach with 200, and then use 500 to make yourself happy. You think it's nothing. After all, you spend your own money to make yourself happy. Why not? But there are many things that make you happy, such as gambling, wine, cigarette, and girl. However, this kind of thing may be addictive
I think the most important three people in life are: a strict father, a teacher who teaches me earnestly, and a friend who treats you sincerely! But it takes a lot of opportunities to have these at the same time. I'm ok with everything else, but I have a father who is too strict with me- -), the topic is far away... So the probability of making friends is increasing, and the probability of making good friends is also increasing. However, I think the probability of making friends is greater! And I have heard that women are bottomless, and there may be several! Poof ~ maybe the reason why I don't have a girlfriend now is this sentence, not cunning!
With money, standing at another height, subconsciously, people always want to be better. So after money will change to want more money! Under the temptation of desire, you know, do bad things to earn more money, over time... And research shows that: more money, people's desire is also greater! Many kinds of
Well, that's all for today. After all, I still have no money. It's because of my feelings. It's not suitable for me. It's all my personal opinions. One more thing: I don't have money, I'm not bad, and I'm single.
Point 2: first of all, explain. It's not that men become bad as soon as they have money, but that you find a bad man in the beginning.
In modern society, there are far more people who pursue fame and wealth than those who adhere to principles. More and more temptation will be filled with impetuous, lack of self-control of the heart. A man with weak concentration and no bottom line is easy to get lost and lose his way. Huang, gambling and poison, these three invisible demons, quietly put down a large number of such people.
In the entertainment circle, it is not uncommon for people to abandon their families and children, find a third child, gamble and take drugs. It is this negative celebrity effect that exaggerates the seemingly correct proposition that men get worse as soon as they have money. Since ancient times, this kind of celebrity's negative effect has gradually set up such an unhealthy concept. For example, Chen Shimei, who left her family and abandoned her son after she became rich and rich. This should be attributed to the category of "a grain of rat excrement spoils a pot of good soup.".
Of course, it's not in favor of men. In real life, especially in today's high divorce rate, it is undeniable that the reason for divorce is that men have more faults than women. The reasons are as follows
First, some men have no bottom line in their marriage. The bottom line is that both men and women should stick to their own principles in dealing with the world and husband and wife. What can be done and what can not be touched. This in their own mind, should distinguish clearly. Not doing anything out of line is a responsible attitude towards individuals and marriage.
Second, men like to pursue excitement and freshness. Of course, some women are no exception. Like fresh, exciting, if moderate can become the adjustment of life. It is very necessary to keep a fresh feeling in life for a good marriage. However, we should not pursue the stimulation and freshness without bottom line and principle. Such as cheating, taking drugs, etc. Once contaminated with this kind of bad, it is really bad and hopeless.
Third, there are too many temptations from outside. Even a good man can stick to the bottom line and principles. But inevitably, other women may take the initiative. Or other people's instigation, and then infected with bad habits. In addition to personality, the environment is also an important reason for the deterioration of men. In order to resist the infection of the environment, we need more and more powerful self-control. However, many men fall into the hotbed of the environment at this time.
Fourth, there is too much pressure and there is no outlet for emotion. Life pressure is a heavy burden. Men suffer from the role of the head of their own family, and often can not appeal to their relatives. Once there are other women pretending to understand and understand him at this time, he will easily fall into the trap. Men are needed to understand that this is the cause of many broken marriages. They want their women to understand themselves and understand themselves. Once his partner can not give understanding, his emotional vent window is blocked. At this time, the marriage will be easy to have crisis.
Fifth, they failed to gain the recognition and respect of their own women. Man's dignity is his last line of defense. If you don't get your partner's approval, respect or even scorn for a long time. Men are likely to lose their bottom line. Especially now, many women always compare other men with their own men, and scold their own men as useless and incompetent. These women are undoubtedly stupid women. He pushed his own man to others. Respect in marriage and mutual understanding are the secrets of marriage preservation.
In the final analysis, the essence of the deterioration of men is that women are not well behaved. If the beginning of a relationship or marriage is based on money, appearance, or even freshness, excitement, and impulse, it is doomed to be unstable from the beginning. If men get bad, no one else is to blame, because you didn't find a really good man in the first place.
Viewpoint 3: it can only be said that men with money are more likely to get worse than men without money. Generally speaking, when men have money, their hearts will change, they will find young girls and abandon their wives. In fact, this is what a person wants when he is poor. When he was in trouble, he subconsciously envied others to live such a life. When he suddenly developed, the idea of meeting his own will was born. It is also divided into bad because of money. In fact, he may be such a person who can't change his mind without money. When he has money, he can't achieve it. When he has money, he has conditions, and he has been attracted by many temptations, he will naturally change.
Don't blame a man for being rich and getting worse. A man's inner essence can't be changed. It's just that money gives him the conditions to show his inner essence.
Point 4: it's not 'getting worse' at all
It's that they are not good people, but there are no conditions to show the bad side before.
Money is just a condition
When conditions are ripe, nature shows its bad nature.
So you can't blame money. It's just a touchstone. People with good character can use their money perfectly. No matter how much money is put into their hands, there will be no deterioration or even better.
Viewpoint 5: Thank you~
First of all, it is because the man himself is bad, whether rich or not. Before, without money, some of his desires could not be realized. With money, his ego would expand. Those desires are like Pandora's box. The opened box is no longer easy to be closed. Those desires wantonly attack him, dominate him, let him enjoy and play, and he will eventually become a bad person in our mouth.
In fact, good education, reflection on self-development, and the influence and restriction of the environment are all aimed at suppressing the evil in human nature. But if these balances are broken, will the evil in their bodies be as uncontrollable as the force of the flood and famine, then they will become worse.
Once again, the man's own bad nature, as the saying goes, home flowers do not have the fragrance of wild flowers, I do not know what psychology this is.
Finally, the deterioration of men has something to do with women. If, although the man has no money, but he has a good wife, the wife is very skilled and gentle, no matter how poor the man is, she will silently support him behind, no regrets, work hard with the man, I want to ask, this man has money, he will go bad, may, may not. If it turns bad, it means that the man's ability is not good. If he doesn't get bad, he can restrain the evil in his body and respect and love his wife. If a man doesn't have a good wife, and the wife complains and criticizes the man every day, then I would like to ask if a man has money. Yes, it is not only his bad nature, but also the influence of his family and environment. Therefore, a good man needs a good woman to match. A good woman should be able to run her own family instead of blaming her man all the time. Both sides should learn to be tolerant and understand each other.
I just want to say that a slap in the face doesn't make a sound. Everything should be viewed from multiple angles. Here, I didn't help anyone refute it. I just said my own point of view.
If you meet a bad man, leave. Leave with your dignity and pride, and pursue a better self and the right one.
Freud said that marriage is like a forward transaction. At the same time, this kind of transaction based on marriage contains certain risks, just like futures trading. When you sign a contract, you will bear the high-risk, unrequited contractual responsibility of whether the other party will grow old, whether he will become irritable and whether he will get sick.