It is said that junior high school children are the most difficult to manage, because they are in the rebellious period. They say that the children in the rebellious period are the most difficult to manage. Have you really used the right method? Then why do children have rebellious behavior? Parents should read it carefully
If you are in adolescence, do your parents often complain? Adolescence often reminds people of 'treason'. In foreign countries, people often use such words as "storm" to describe puberty. Why is adolescence so turbulent?
The English word for puberty is' Adolescence ', which comes from Latin' Adolescence ', meaning' growing to maturity '. When we were children, we were almost completely dependent on our parents, both physically and emotionally. As adults, we can be self reliant and emotionally independent. Puberty is in between. It's like a bridge between immature childhood and mature adulthood. This is a transitional phase, a process from dependence to independence. Just like a bird leaving its nest, a child must eventually leave his parents' shelter and support the sky with his own strength.
'transition 'means instability. This instability comes from three sources. First, the great physiological changes in adolescence make it difficult for teenagers to adapt. After puberty, the levels of sex hormone, adrenocortical hormone and other hormones have changed dramatically. Under the action of these hormones, the body of teenagers grows and develops rapidly. Sometimes, these physiological changes will bring trouble to teenagers, and then lead to some psychological and behavioral problems.
Secondly, the social attributes of teenagers are changing quietly. Before puberty, children mainly establish close relationships with family members. But after adolescence, teenagers pay more and more attention to the friendship between their peers and have a strong interest in the communication with the opposite sex. Third, the cognitive level of adolescents has been significantly improved, but it is still immature, so sometimes they can not control their behavior well.
In addition, there are differences between parents and adolescents in life attitude and behavior habits, which is an important reason for parent-child conflict. Parents are experienced middle-aged people, often feel that children's behavior is reckless, naive and unreliable. And adolescent children are vigorous and like to explore new things, so they often feel that their parents are too cautious, rigid and boring. This leads to the generation gap, which is often called.