Why do married women have to endure loneliness? Because daydream women will find it difficult to find real happiness in marriage. Over time, marriage will become shackles. We should know that only when we can stand loneliness can we keep prosperity.
Most of the women who can't find happiness are in the vast world of human beings. While women are eager for family warmth, peace and security, they are also eager for romantic love and constant surprises during marriage. Therefore, marriage makes women become secular, trivial and haggard. When a woman learns to compromise in her marriage, she gradually loses her inner balance, especially when she sees some classmates or colleagues start to succeed in their careers, or even start to live a well-off life. Vanity and inferiority will lead to her abnormal behavior. She always feels that her life is not bright, that there is no husband to be proud of, and that there is no achievement to be proud of Often do not feel happy, happiness is a long time to the hard to remember.
Women have too many regrets because they pay too much. Women always think about how to continuously inject beautiful colors like flowers into the plain life, or to appease their dream soul that gradually begins to wither. There are many such women. Therefore, nowadays, more and more women often complain about life and often say to their husbands: you see who has made great achievements in their career, how rich they are, and how good they are to their wives;. And so on, there's a lot of complaints. However, a man's heart is usually bigger than a woman's, and he usually chooses to be silent about his wife's complaints or family trivia, and he will not let his wife see who is good to her husband;. Most men know that a woman's heart is very sensitive and fragile, which needs men to protect. Therefore, the smart husband will always coax his wife, even if the cooked food is the most fragrant.
In fact, many women also know that their temper is not good enough, their character is not gentle enough, and they are far from the standard of a good wife and a good mother. But when they are worried, they will hate their husband's indifference, and they like to toss their husband's restlessness and psychological balance. In fact, the vast majority of men's attitude towards family is far more cautious and stable than that of women. Although on the surface, married men rarely bring romantic surprise to their wives. It seems that married men don't understand women's heart any more and no longer give them warmth and romance. Therefore, women are always changing in their hearts. Their thoughts are easy to go to extremes, and they are also easy to torture themselves. Therefore, women just like to think blindly Grinding.
Women have to learn to stand loneliness to keep prosperity. In the increasingly flat days, only the kind of stupid women will choose to break through the bottom line to seek romance, and even fall into it. As a result, it not only destroys the marriage and family that they have worked hard for many years, but also leads to the reason that life can no longer be happy. And smart women are usually those who know how to be content and enjoy happiness. They will never take marriage and family as the price of romance. After all, there is no eternal romance in the world. Life can not always be full of passion. Marriage does not always have love, and there will not be immortal love. When everything is calm, those romantic experiences will survive In fact, the trace of his plain life is the accumulated happiness in his inner world.
Only when a woman can stand loneliness can she keep the clouds open and see the sunrise. No matter how big a boss is, it's hard to start a business. No matter how big a leader is, she should swallow her anger when she first enters the official career. At the moment, a woman should know that marriage is not only the eternal waves in her heart, but also the mood of the whole family, the perseverance to accompany her husband and the happiness of contentment I'm in a good mood. Therefore, it is very important for women to know how to be content and cherish happiness. When they are lonely, they should learn to take care of their own life, enjoy loneliness and respect each other. Only in this way can you get more unexpected happiness.
The occasional loneliness is a kind of eternal beauty. It will cultivate women's connotation and charm, develop women's temperament and cultivation, and become the most beautiful inner world of women. Therefore, happiness is to endure loneliness. Only a woman who can keep loneliness will realize and get the best happiness in life.