Generally speaking, don't you pay attention to the right family when you get married? If two people with a large economic foundation get married, how should they get along with each other? Let's have a look
Married, it means to start into a visible and invisible war, to fight with her mother-in-law. Are you ready to start fighting with your mother-in-law? If not, learn how to deal with this relationship first. So how to get along with the rich mother-in-law's eyes? Follow Xiaobian to see the poor daughter-in-law's way of getting along with the rich mother-in-law!
I was the first one in our village to be admitted to university. Others jokingly called me "golden phoenix flying out of the valley". But my parents almost shed their last drop of blood and sweat because they provided me with reading. Therefore, when I went back to teach in a small town after graduation, when it comes to marriage, I first declare that I have no dowry. Not only that, I have to repay some debts of my family, but also support my parents. For this reason, I had some twists and turns in my marriage until I met my husband.
My husband said that I was waiting for him in his life. He didn't mind my poor family at all. He was also very proud of my open-minded and hardworking parents and had a deep gratitude for the parents who gave birth to me. I'm the best dowry. We have both hands. We can start from poverty and create the future. So, we are holding hands and walking on the red carpet of marriage.
And mother-in-law, just with strange eyes, look at me.
The husband's brother has just been married for one year, and his mouth is very sweet, which is very popular with his mother-in-law. At the weekend, we went to my mother-in-law's, and she gave us a cool hand. The sister-in-law went, and she went all the way out of the door to greet her with warm and warm hospitality.
My new house is very simple and my sister-in-law's is very luxurious. Many of them are in sharp contrast. I think I am stupid, poor and not good at flattering others. If you don't welcome me, don't go. Fortunately, my husband always comforts me and always enlightens my mother-in-law in his words. Besides, I think it's also because of my poverty that my husband worries a lot more about my mother-in-law. Every time, he always cares more about my mother-in-law than I do. Looking at my husband's pity on me, I feel a lot of comfort, and I forget many bad things about my mother-in-law.
She was getting along with her mother-in-law. The confrontation with her was after I had a baby.
The child is just half a year old, and the husband catches up with him for further study. I have to go to work, my mother-in-law just fine, also said willing to help me with my daughter. I'll let her take it. After all, she's my daughter's grandmother. But when she came to live with me, she still kept on criticizing me. For example, how the poverty of my mother's family caused his son to be unable to afford a refrigerator. When a guest came, he told the guest behind my back how I was stingy because of poverty, how I didn't like the guest telling others not to come, and so on. The guests and neighbors all repeated these words to me, which made me very angry.
So I had a good night to think about how to talk to change my mother-in-law's snobbery. The next day, just after a break, I calmly went to my mother-in-law and asked her why she said such things in the neighborhood. What are the evidences for saying that I was mean, mean and didn't welcome guests? My mother's family was poor and didn't have a dowry, but I didn't ask for any money from you. My parents only wanted their children to be good. What's the good for you to provoke your son to be bad for me Is it reasonable?
My mother-in-law never saw me contradict her. Seeing that I didn't beat around the Bush but went straight to the subject, her face was a burst of shame, then she denied that she didn't say anything about me, and then said that if I didn't like her, she would go back & hellip; & hellip;
After this accident, my mother-in-law knew that although I came from the countryside, I was not the kind of person who was always weak and could be deceived. She also knew that my husband was good and trusted me. And I remember that my father-in-law died early, and my mother-in-law took pains to bring up her two sons, and refused many people's offer of marriage, all for the sake of a good future for her son, which is not easy. Looking forward to a happy ending for my children is the hope of every parent. Let her know that I don't understand, but I didn't want to understand before. But she's her husband's mother, and I should love her. I try to understand her from her point of view. Especially when my mother died, I tried to think of her as my own mother.
I have always been careless and determined to use my sincerity and love to influence my mother-in-law. Some unimportant festivals, such as the Mid Autumn Festival, Chongyang and her birthday, I always can't remember them. I wrote them in my memo and on my mobile phone. I try to give her a decent present. My daughter grew up and became more and more lovely. She looked happy. On Saturday and Sunday, I sent my daughter to play with her for a day or two. It's common for old people in the city to wear bright red and green. I saw that sometimes she wanted to wear it, but she was afraid of laughing. So I took time to accompany her on the street, chatted with her while walking, and bought her some fashionable clothes. And she became more and more happy.