almost every time I go on a blind date, I die in the light of the light. After a blind date, many girls begin to complain about how many problems people always have. They are unwilling to make do with it. It's not appropriate. So why is the success rate of blind date so low? Look at the reason why~
Why is the success rate of blind date always very low? Some men and women go in and out of the blind date army, but they never meet the satisfied one. It's not because the blind date crowd is unreliable, but because there are too many reasons for the failure of blind date. Let's make an inventory for you and see how many points you have!
No house, no car
This reason can definitely occupy the top of the list, especially in large and medium-sized cities, who does not admit that I am anxious with whom, how many lovers die in this reason. It is true to say that the house price pushed up by mother-in-law. No house and no car is not necessarily a blind date failure, but a house and a car can definitely make the other party's interest in you soar in a straight line. In today's practical society, men's wealth and women's looks are the only rules. Who doesn't like goddess? Who doesn't want to find a handsome and rich man.
have no feelings
There is no following after meeting. Nine out of ten people die here. Wang Ba and mung bean don't have eyes on each other. There are too many reasons for not feeling, such as too fat and too thin, shortsightedness, poor figure, airport, acne, single eyelids, less hair loss, walking inside and outside, walking legs too apart, appearance of a woman, sissy, slovenly dress, lack of silence Words or eloquence ah, bucket waist elephant legs ah, the first date dining place is too classless ah, in short, all kinds of wonderful reasons. occupation
It is said that there is no distinction between high and low occupation, but is it possible in reality? Bullshit. Nowadays, civil servants, teachers, doctors, banks and so on are all hot cakes. These professions sound respectable and stable, so priority should be given to them. No matter how good an enterprise is, even if it is a top 500 foreign enterprise, it is not a part-time job in my mother-in-law's eyes, it is not a job. Of course, some people have different choices. For example, if they are not interested in civil servants, they will get a dead salary every month and want to find someone to do business. Some girls are very inclined to technical otaku, loyal, stable and reliable, although they may be less interesting in life and so on.
height
On the south side of the Yangtze River, girls are 160cm on average. If 165 girls walk on the street, they will show off if they wear 8cm high-heeled shoes. If they have good looks, good shape and good temperament, they will definitely have a high turnover rate. For boys, the average is 175, which is estimated to be less than that. Boys under 170 in the eyes of many girls is estimated to be the third class disabled level, no discrimination, do not shoot. For the choice of height, no matter 150 girls or 165 girls, they all want the other side to be taller. It is true, but not absolute, to improve the next generation's genes.
Most of them require 170 or even 175 or more. Sometimes you can see 152 girls and 180 boys shopping hand in hand on the street. Don't worry about the coordination. Maybe the boys are just like this. The birds depend on the people. Boys in this respect, generally not too much higher than their line. But if a boy looks like 165, he will have no advantage in the hardware of the blind date market. When some girls hear that the matchmaker talks about such height, they will pass directly, and they don't even need to see it. Therefore, height has no advantage, so it can only be made up by other aspects. Eight characters of Chinese Zodiac
Chinese people pay attention to zodiac zodiac, superstitious point is to calculate the two people's birthday eight characters together or not. During blind date, parents of both sides consider a lot in this aspect. If they don't agree with each other, pass immediately. Just give me a few examples. For example, you can't be three years younger, Xiao Chong. You can't be less than six years old. Dachong (Liuchong), shit, Tama has Liuhe. What's more, there's such a mess as a girl in her junior year holding a BRIC, a girl in her freshman year and a boy in her sophomore year.
As for the aspect of zodiac, for example, two members of a family are tigers, but one mountain is hard to accommodate tigers. The key is the female tiger. For example, the sheep and the tiger are not good. For example, the dragon and the rabbit can't communicate with each other. For example, chicken and dog, the idiom has chicken and dog restlessness. Some people say that the dragon and the tiger are absolutely not good. The dragon and the tiger fight. In fact, if they don't fight, there is something wrong with the wood.
education
Modern people pay more attention to the gap in education, for example, if they are undergraduates, the corresponding level is one grade higher or lower. The general reason is that the study experience will be more similar, and there will be more common language, which is true. A little more in-depth, it will involve two people's three outlooks, of course, the impact of education on the Three Outlooks is only one aspect, there are many other aspects, such as family, experience and living and working environment and so on. There must have been some students who were very different from their education background. It turns out that some of them really have nothing to say. Some of them have a lot to say. Although they have a low education background, they have rich social experience. They are very reasonable and they really know astronomy and geography, but you can't say them.
single-parent family
There are many cases of single parent families. Intuitively, it is the divorced families. In fact, divorce only accounts for a part of them. However, the single parent families caused by divorce still have a certain impact on the formation of children's character and world outlook and outlook on life. It is not here to discriminate against single parent families. It is hoped that students from single parent families will not be biased. After all, single parent families have a bad impact on children After all, it's a very small part.
Forced to go on a blind date
It's true that some of the male and female students reject blind date. They feel that it's like the vegetables in the vegetable market are picked by others on the stall, so they are more excluded. But sometimes they can't do anything under the coercion and inducement of their parents, and they have to be bold to see them. However, this situation does seem a little disrespectful to the other side.
It's true that there are such people around. They feel that blind date is very cheap. They are not recommended by their parents. They make their parents angry. Even if you don't go, if you have the ability, you can find it by yourself. But you don't find it. The circle is narrow. You have to get married at 2:1 every day. Blind date is just a way to get to know people. Let's not mix too many other things into it. What kind of rotten cabbage is on sale. Don't think so. Let's just meet a new friend. Maybe one day we'll see the right eye, right. Don't like each other's character
This is also a very common excuse and reason. Sunny extroverted boys with a bit of humor are certainly more popular, gentle and virtuous, temperament or fair lady market is also certain. But after all, these are only a small part, there are many other types, some like the appearance of women, inner man, some like shy sultry technical otaku.
Here is a kind of chicken rib type in the eyes of many girls, honest and reliable men or good people, because they are often given good people cards. This kind of man is very common in real life, their biggest characteristic is honest and honest, quite reliable, some have no problem with the same sex, when they meet a girl, they wilt, they are more dull in emotion, and they are not good at expression. So, even if he looks at each other for the first time, he really doesn't know how to express himself, and then he will meet her for the first time The performance of shy, some will blush embarrassed, a little silent, not good at words, also don't know how to get along with girls, also don't say something to make girls happy, chat with girls text messages also don't take the initiative, because sometimes they really don't know what to talk with girls, then, girls will think this person is too boring, no sense of humor, life is not interesting It's not romantic, and then it's a good man card, and then it's not. I have a brother
First of all, female compatriots with younger brothers should not be biased. Younger brothers here mainly refer to those who do not strive for progress, are idle, and need help from their parents and elder sisters in life. Their parents prefer sons over daughters, and they hope that their elder sisters can help their younger brother-in-law. How can we say that these are all justifiable. They should do their best to help in some places, and they are most afraid of getting married The elder sister who went to her mother's home is still in her heart. The elder brother-in-law will have endless troubles in the future. It's too late for me to avoid a situation like this.
Hereditary diseases
In this regard, it is more sensitive. There is also a typical case around us, so it will not be carried out. There are dominant and recessive genes in high school biology. Maybe there is nothing wrong with the physical representation of the object you are talking about, but the next generation is absolutely a disaster for both sides, even the whole family is shamed. The child is pitiful and innocent, and it also concerns the parents.
The two places are separated
It's not uncommon for two people on blind date to lose in the separation of the two places. Many students meet each other when they are on a blind date. They work in different cities. If they are near, they will be in different administrative districts of the same city. It's hard to say that they are far away. If they move, they will be thousands of miles away. However, different places bring a lot of problems to both parties, including the problems after their marriage. It's a difficult problem for them to have dinner together, let alone other problems. It's often distance that weakens their feelings, and it's even worse after their marriage. Therefore, how to solve the problem of different places is a difficult problem in front of many lovers.
I absolutely believe that after meeting, both sides have a good impression on each other and are very satisfied with each other, and the subsequent contact is also very good, but when it comes to the issue of different places, it just falls apart. Neither side is willing to give in, and neither side wants to give up its own business and come to the other side for redevelopment.