what do women like? Men will succeed in catching up with women only when they like it. But you need to know what taboos men avoid when chasing women, so as to improve the success rate!
Taboo 1: create a tragic image of a good man. Have you noticed that really good girls never like 'good' men. Like me, I'm sure you have some very good girlfriends who often associate with what you seem to be pure 'rotten' people, and for some reason, these girls are never interested in you. Why on earth is this? It's very simple. The reason why girls choose men is not 'whether he is a good man'. It's instinct that they choose the men. Being a good man doesn't appeal to girls. Being a good man doesn't make women lean towards you. Taboo 2: try to persuade girls. Most men do what they like when they meet a girl. In fact, girls don't think so. This is why men always try to persuade girls. Let me tell you, we can never change the girl's instinctive response to the concept of attraction. Never. You can't make a girl feel 'different' with the so-called 'logic and reason'. Think it over. But in reality, when girls are not interested in us, what do we do? We pray, beg, pester, and try every means to change their ideas. This is definitely the worst policy. We'll never do that again. Taboo 3: seek the consent of a woman. In our traditional view, if we want a girl to like us, we have to get her approval for everything. This is another bad strategy. Women never like men who are submissive and kind to them. Don't get me wrong. It's not that you have to abuse girls in order to win their favor.
But if you think that the girl name means: always for girls, obedient. You'll never win a girl's heart. As a matter of fact, girls hate men who behave like this. If you doubt me, why don't you ask the girls around you if they like such a man. Taboo 4: try to buy love with money. Think about how many times you have taken a girl out to dinner, bought her gifts and flowers. But at the same time, she refuses you to accept a rotten person who treats her less than half as well as you? Does this happen from time to time in your life? This is actually a very natural thing.
But when you do these things, you think they send a very obvious signal: I know you don't like me, so I have to spend money to get your attention and favor. This and obvious attempt of yours has just come across the girl's' defense system ', which is that they lack the sense of wholeness and feel controlled at the same time. Yes, women see these actions as' control '.
Taboo 5: shallow talk, share their feelings and thoughts too early another big mistake, that is, many boys get along with girls in the process of too early, and they 'share' their feelings and thoughts. Good girls are scarce, and they deserve more attention from men. Many people don't realize it, but the fact is that excellent girls are always targeted by others.
Excellent girls are disturbed by men many times a day, dozens of times a week, hundreds of times a month. We continue to think: Girls naturally come and go with some boys, that is to say, they must have a lot of experience in this field. They know what's going to happen. And after one or two dates, you can't wait to say: you know what? Actually I like you very much. It is such abrupt words that scare the girls away. They leave you without looking back. It makes girls feel that you are as hot as any other boy and can't help it.
Don't be so rash, take a step back and relax & hellip; you will find that the effect will be better. In the early stage of emotion, it's important to show self charm, but in emotional expression, slow down, slow down. Learn to think with your brain, not just your eyes. Because sometimes what the eyes see is not necessarily true. Taboo 6: being eager to express oneself should be a confirmation action, an established fact, or a fact that you believe has a high success rate, so that you can make the final confirmation action. But a group of people regard confession as' notice 'or' weapon of pursuit '.
'that & hellip; I like you, can you be my girlfriend? Do you know how many girls think? I'm not very familiar with you, right? Or 'we're just ordinary friends. How can I know whether it's suitable or not? "Many girls respond as follows:
A. Avoid you directly, because do not want to promise you;
B. Do not directly agree or refuse, want to test, or want to feel the boy is suitable, willing to pay.
Today, if I don't want to promise you, I will continue to accept your kindness. Or pursue & hellip;. That's bad intentions. A lot of times, girls want to lengthen the observation time, so situation B happens. If a girl just wants to know whether it's suitable for her to keep in touch with you, and to give a moderate friendly and ambiguous response, she wants to observe & hellip; if she uses' bad for you 'to see whether you are willing to continue to be good for me', it's a girl's brain problem. But in this world, too many people have no confidence in their feelings, and want to test the weight of their feelings, so they have a bad test.
Not good for you, but you continue to be good for me - wow, you really love me. If it's not good for you, you run away -- look, you don't really love me. This kind of thing boys and girls will do, I am not good to you, but you have to continue to be good to me, that is not called true love, that is called true harm. If a boy is bullied, tortured and oppressed by a girl, and he has to be kind to the girl wholeheartedly, what level of man is that? Are you sure he is still a 'man'? If you really treat a man as a good person for free, please say goodbye to her and let the relationship end completely.