At a party, a foreign man said that the Chinese girl was the most open and daring girl he had ever met. We always think that we are implicit, reserved, shy and reserved, but how can we suddenly become the 'most open girl in the world'?
If I want to make a girlfriend, I won't go to the bar
--Robert, 24, American
I have been in China for two years. I found that girls in Beijing are more modern and open than many Chinese girls in America.
I like modern girls. It's difficult to communicate with Chinese girls who are too traditional. I especially like those girls who graduated from university and have several years of work experience, because they are independent and smart enough. Chinese girls who have just graduated from college tend to be simple minded, just like high school girls in the United States.
I find it strange that Chinese girls don't pay attention to men's appearance, but to their strength. Therefore, on the street, they often see couples with great age difference walking together, because most powerful men are not too young. In the United States, such a mismatched couple will be ridiculed by others. We don't want to be somebody else's' dad 'or' big brother '.
I've met a lot of Chinese girls who are very open. They like to meet foreigners. In the bar, they will take the initiative to say hello to me, I buy them a drink, they will tell me the mobile phone number, this is unimaginable in the United States. If I ask a girl for her cell phone number when I meet, I will slap them in the face.
I don't think these foreign girls are stupid because I don't think they have a Chinese purpose. In fact, the foreign men who deal with them also make use of them
To achieve one's own purpose. If I want to make friends with Chinese girlfriends seriously, I will ask colleagues and friends to introduce them to me instead of going to bars. A foreign man is a purse with legs?
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--Lutz, 26, German, interns in a large German engineering company in China.
Before I came to China, I knew little about it. But I like Zhang Yimou's films. I think Gong Li is very beautiful. In the past, this is what I thought of Chinese girls.
There is always a certain gap between reality and imagination. Now I can divide Chinese girls into several types: traditional ones: these girls tend to be gentle and introverted, and have strong vigilance against men, especially western men. If you praise their beautiful clothes, they will go away with a red face. It's very difficult to invite them to dinner and go to a bar.
Westernized: this kind of girl is outgoing and sociable. In addition to skin color, there is no big difference with western girls. They can happily accept our invitation, go out dancing and travel with us, and quarrel with us because of many trivial matters. Many Chinese female colleagues around me belong to this type.
Utilitarian: I didn't expect to meet so many utilitarian girls in China. Different from the westernized type, this kind of girl is very active, and if you go out with her two or three times, she will offer to be your girlfriend or even say that she hopes you will marry her. Some of them are for other purposes, such as making a guarantee for her to go abroad, helping her find a school and a place to live abroad. They see men as wallets with legs. I don't like such a girl very much. I don't think any man would like such a girl.
I know that some Western men take advantage of the mentality of Chinese girls, and we hate it. So I hope that Chinese girls can have more self-protection consciousness, and don't trust others easily.
The utilitarian girl is the best and the most stupid
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--Mr. bill, 31, head of the European group.
I have been working in China for five years. I think China is a very competitive country, college students will encounter a lot of money immediately after graduation
Pressure. This is not the case in Norway. People are very lazy, because our country's social security system is too perfect, so we all become lazy people. I like to work hard, so I prefer the environment in which China creates opportunities for young people.
Chinese girls, like boys, have a strong desire to make money. I have had two Chinese girlfriends who were my colleagues. They work very hard and often work overtime like me. After work, they also seriously prepare for the examination to study in Europe. They have a kind of perseverance, I really admire them.
If we talk about the shortcomings of Chinese girls, I think most of them are relatively simple and poor in knowledge. When we talk to them, we will find that they are "a little silly". There are many very beautiful Chinese girls, but their minds are empty, and they are very satisfied with it.
The girls we like in Europe are smart, interesting and have personality. All of these advantages will make a girl with less outstanding appearance very attractive.
When it comes to girls who are particularly utilitarian, I have met many in many Asian countries. On the surface, they are very clever, but I think they are actually very ignorant. They think that European and American men like open women, so they try to make themselves appear particularly open in order to win their favor and achieve their own goals. But how many of them can achieve their own goals?