When we are old enough to get married, we need to have someone who can get married. What should we pay attention to when looking for someone?
Don't look for people who are materialistic and don't want to support themselves
Everyone has material desire, but excessive desire is a disaster. Key words: material desire, not self-supporting. For example, some men and women want to live in a big house and drive a good car, but they don't take action, but they always want to squeeze money out of their parents' pockets. Light is angry, heavy is forced parents looking for life and death, regret the birth of TA this child. As a result, if you want to enjoy yourself, you will end up as a beggar. You can't pay your debts everywhere, and you will become a street mouse. They love to play, enjoy and shop, but they are super lazy. They can play games all night, but they cry bitterly when they study and do things for an hour, and they are hard to change.
Don't look for people who borrow money before they get married
In this case, you must be more careful. You are a liar. This kind of routine is very common. Generally, men cheat women and women cheat men. When you are in love, you suddenly start to borrow money for various reasons. What relatives are sick, what working capital, and what money you need to invest & hellip& hellip; If that's the case, you might as well have a laugh. One hundred out of ten such people are liars.
Don't look for people who are too materialistic and don't want to support themselves
Looking for such a person is like supporting a great immortal. In the name of the people, does Sun Liancheng know? This kind of person doesn't do practical work, doesn't work hard, doesn't work hard for his family. On the contrary, it looks like seeing through everything. As a result, the family and the object were pitied.
Don't look for someone who's hiding something from you all the time
Mianmian originally said that almost all the accounts of my husband and I are shared, so there is no need to hide them. It's a little trick for emotional management, mutual trust and avoidance of trickiness. Today, I won't talk about it in detail. For details, please see the previous microblog. This is actually very simple and effective. Some chicken soup tells you that you need personal space in your relationship to be fresh. I don't know how many people are brainwashed and how many people are trapped. If you want more personal space, why do you still get married? Nerves. Love is to lead two people together, marriage is to tie two people together. If you want personal space and personal secrets, don't get married. Don't stop talking when you get married.
Don't find someone who won't take you to see your family or introduce you to your friends.
At the wedding, the bridegroom's relatives were all rented by him & hellip& hellip; It's a bit extreme, but I advise you and tell you a truth. If the other party really wants to have a good time with you, really love you, then TA can't wait to take you to know TA's friends, take you into his circle, take you home to see your parents. Let you know his "details" at ease. And people who want to play with you, or play with you, will try every means to refuse you to enter his real circle with various excuses, hide themselves deeply, and leave a good way to retreat after they cheat you. This kind of person is very terrible, once there is such a sign, I advise you to pay more attention to prevention.
Don't look for people who have nothing to say
The more common situation is a person, because the other side is beautiful or handsome, the result chase for a long time, finally catch up. However, there is nothing to say with each other, I feel very reluctant. Such marriages are doomed to be crooked. It's a twisted melon.