In recent years, campus bullying has happened frequently. As parents, we always hope to protect our children from being bullied. But we have to send our children to school. In the future, our children have to face the society by themselves. The only thing we can do is to teach our children to be strong and brave and to solve problems.
For some young children, they have a strong sense of self at this time. They like to show their ability by bullying children who are weaker than themselves. Some children are pampered by their parents at home. When they are dissatisfied with other children, they will use their fists to maintain their dignity.
So how can we keep our children away from school bullying?
Parents should respect their children
Some cowardly children often suffer from negative comments from their parents at home. For example, they say that the child is a 'coward', 'coward' and 'weak'. As time goes by, the children will identify with the 'label' that their parents put on them and become inferior and weak. In this way, they will attract those 'bullies' in school and become the targets of being bullied. Parents should often express their love to their children, praise their children's advantages, let them know that they are loved, and increase their self-confidence.
2. Support and understand children
Children are bullied by other children, don't just let them bear. In recent years, it's not uncommon for children to commit suicide or self harm because they can't bear campus bullying. Being bullied by others for a long time will cause immeasurable psychological harm to children. When children talk to adults, parents must timely comfort and give emotional support to children, so as not to aggravate their inner trauma.
Bravery is the best way
When children are always bullied by bullies and can't avoid them.
< 1> Don't be afraid of your hands and feet in front of them. It will only arouse their desire to bully others.
< 2> Teach children to face bravely, can denounce loudly, so, one can cause the teacher's attention, two can also frighten them, if the teacher, the arbiter, can't play any good regulatory role, then we must learn to protect ourselves.
< 3> When others repeatedly hurt and bully themselves, we should summon up courage to resist. We don't need to be polite all the time. We should know how to safeguard our own interests and personal safety.
4. Educate your children
If every parent can educate their children well, and instill in them that violence is something that cowards and stupid people will do, and parents severely stop and criticize education when their children hit others, will bullying be as rampant as it is now? When children are young, once they become perpetrators and have psychological advantages, it is difficult to get rid of this bad habit, They become selfish and violent, and even break the law when they grow up. It is the responsibility of every parent to educate their children well.