Since the opening of the two child policy, more and more families want to have another child, but no matter what the angle is, these situations should be taken into account before pregnancy preparation!
When I was writing microblog, I saw a surprising hot search. In a family of four in Jining, Shandong Province, the birth of Er Bao three years ago changed Dabao's temperament greatly. As Dabao's sister, I felt that since I had a younger brother, the focus of the whole family had been on him. I felt that the neglected Dabao not only became rebellious, full of resentment against his family, not only beat and scold his younger brother, but also self mutilated him. This situation has also triggered a discussion. 1. Do a good job in Dabao's ideological work. Generally speaking, when preparing for the second child, Dabao is already sensible and conscious. Many of them may just come to the important period of self-awareness. Dabao's own favor will be divided up by others, and the children will instinctively have the psychology of rejection. At this time, the guidance and education of parents is particularly important. No matter during pregnancy or after childbirth, the attention and care for Dabao should not be reduced. It is particularly important to balance the relationship between the two children. It is suggested that pregnant mothers can refer to Hu Kejia's parenting concept.
2. Pre pregnancy examination can't ignore the idea of many people that I've already had a baby. It's no problem to fight again. It's a big mistake to have this idea. Xiaobian contact with infertility patients, many of them are the second pregnancy is not smooth. Because with the increase of age, the probability of abnormal organs increased significantly, gynecological diseases are more likely to come to the door, so the pre pregnancy examination should be actively done, in order to avoid problems during pregnancy preparation delay the good pregnancy opportunity.
3. Many pregnant mothers hope to shorten the age difference between the two children as much as possible when they are young or the conditions are suitable. Some even get pregnant again when they are still in the lactation period. But we should know that pregnant in October, once childbirth for the mother's consumption is very large, especially some expectant mothers or caesarean section of the baby, the interval is too short, it is easy to be dangerous. It is suggested that women with natural childbirth should be nursed for at least one year before pregnancy, while women with caesarean section should consider pregnancy after 2-3 years.
Precautions for having a second child:
1. Good physical quality: our body is the shelter for the baby, if the body is not good, it is equivalent to a broken house, the child will also be dangerous to live, but if your body is better, the child will live safely in your body, then the same, you can have a better rest, and the baby will grow faster.
2. Check before pregnancy: check your body is not only good for your baby, but also healthy and smart.
3. Good attitude: older mothers must pay attention to keep a cheerful mood and adjust their emotions appropriately
4. Consider whether the natural birth: cesarean section is not always a life-long cesarean section, as long as the body has the child's condition is very good, then the next day is completely natural birth.
5. Nutrition should be supplemented: the first child should eat folic acid and the second child should also eat folic acid to supplement nutrition, so as to ensure the high quality of sperm and eggs.
Mothers who want to have a second child should be well prepared before they get pregnant. We er Bao must give them the best love.