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Learn to grow in frustration

Life journey can not always be plain sailing, on the contrary, some setbacks and failures will make our life add a few brilliant colors; will let us grow up; will make us strong! Only after experiencing setbacks and failures can we be fully armed and work hard for life. Some people say: "life is like seven rainbows. There are seven colors: red, orange, yellow, green, green, blue and purple. Red represents passion; orange represents initiative; yellow represents gentleness; green represents never-ending life; blue represents broad-minded; purple represents urgency and fullness. Only after experiencing setbacks and storms can we see the beautiful seven rainbows.

It was one summer, I took part in a calligraphy competition, it was a competition that made me gain In this competition, the players are very strong, compared with them, I am just a novice. I saw an old man with a few calligraphy seriously studying, and a group of people looking at what, also from time to time issued a few praise.

"Good" crowd burst out a burst of applause, I can not help but squeeze into the crowd, saw a boy hanging brush, really ready to sign, then, a red seal printed on the end of the paper. There are four big words "live dragon and live tiger" on the paper. Tiger characters written into wild grass, momentum extraordinary, did not practice for a few years, absolutely can not write out, especially the last stroke, finishing touch, very natural and unrestrained!

I know that I will be the one to compete with him later! I'm scared! I picked up the pen, eardrum dong dong thought, this just realized that I had stage fright. This is when I saw the young man look at me. As soon as I gritted my teeth, the word "Sheng" appeared on the paper. In the twinkling of an eye, another "dragon" was written. Two other people talked: "her attainments are no less than that of the boy." after listening to this, I became more energetic and more elated. When my heart is rippling, at the most critical moment, my heart is still floating. I remember Zeng Zi said that the heart is right, the pen is right. Writing calligraphy is the most taboo heart is not right, in this finishing touch, I failed. I lost completely. composition

This is, I'm stuck. There was a blank in my mind. This is, right here, an old man pulled me and said to me, "girl, it's inevitable that a person will fail, but the most important thing is to sum up the level or psychological reasons. You have a bright future. Calligraphy will belong to you in the future. Don't lose heart, children. "

Yes, no matter it's good or bad, we should face it calmly; no matter we gain or lose, we should accept it calmly. We want to fly, to accept the baptism of wind and rain; we want to fly, never give up! Although we are not strong arm will also be injured, but we have to be strong, learn to grow in setbacks. I am growing up. I used to be a babbling little girl in my mother's arms. I used to be a little princess who took my grandmother to the supermarket to buy snacks. I used to be a little naughty at home who just cried. Now, I have grown up and become a middle school student. In the days of growth, facing the wind and rain and setbacks, I think, smile to face the ups and downs of life, so as to really grow up.

I'm five years old. This is an age full of innocence. Many people may not remember themselves at that time, but I clearly remember the scene of my first kindergarten that year.

That morning, my mother sent me to a strange place. I held my mother in fear. She was very helpless. She threw me away and left me in the kindergarten. I looked at my mother's more and more distant figure, and I couldn't help crying. My mother finally couldn't stand my crying. She turned back to me and hugged me, like: 'Darling, don't cry. One day, you will leave your mother's arms and fly to nature. 'I'm like a little bird that was born soon. I need to grow up in my mother's warm arms.

I'm eight years old. It's a good, happy time. If time goes back, let me go back to the past, I will enjoy the happy life of primary school, and start to let myself learn to be strong in difficulties. composition

I remember when my relatives gave me a new bicycle. I wanted to learn to ride a bike, but the moment I got on the bike, I regretted it. "Bang! 'I fell before the car moved twice. I didn't cry, but I threw the car aside and didn't want to learn. Seeing this, my father asked me: 'what's the matter? After a little setback, I want to give up? 'I said with a stiff head:' I didn't give up, just don't want to learn for the time being. "Dad said earnestly:" where you fall, you should get up. In your future life, there will be many tribulations waiting for you. If you can't bear setbacks, how can you gain a foothold in social life in the future? 'it dawned on me. I picked up the bike I had left behind and learned to ride again. 'Kung Fu is as good as those who want to. 'as long as you have a belief in winning, you will succeed in the end through hard work.

I'm 14 years old. This is another turning point in life. It is an important stage to say goodbye to children and transform into teenagers. At this stage, the main source of frustration and pressure in cultural learning, and these things are like fortresses on the way forward, which need me to work hard to conquer and overcome. composition

The final exam began last term. I thought that the examination results were good, but I didn't expect that I didn't do well enough. I seem to be a vented ball, no elasticity. Back home, my mother saw me dejected and asked: 'what's the matter, didn't you do well in the exam? 'My mother looked at me with her kind eyes. Somehow, I suddenly felt a sense of guilt. I'm sorry for both my parents and teachers. My father painstakingly enlightened me: "if you were fully prepared to review for the exam, you would not have done so badly. Learn from your failures and strive to succeed in your future studies. Now your fighting spirit can't disappear. Can't you overcome all the small difficulties? 'yes, I can't be defeated by difficulties in study. I won't give up easily. I need to cheer up and study hard so that I can really grow up!

The fragrance of plum blossoms comes from the bitter cold. Only after experiencing the wind and rain can we see the rainbow. I think, in the process of their own growth, not afraid of difficulties, hard work, hundreds of disappointments into a satisfactory, this is the heart in the growth!

Jiaxing Qinghe middle school grade one: Zhao? Grows up in failure. People can't always be winners, and people can't always be losers. In the face of failure, we should learn from it, lay the foundation for the next success, and grow up in the accumulation of experience.

To understand that failure is nothing, it should be taken as a lesson to learn from life experience. In this case, we should not just face it with a negative attitude. Setbacks in life can temper a strong personality more than success. Failure forces us to reflect on ourselves so as not to repeat it. If we don't fall on the road of life, we will think ourselves too high and self righteous, and we are more likely to fail in the end. You know, people will make mistakes one day. You should regard obstacles as the ancient books of life, and even more as the running-up device to start again.

After the failure, only those who know how to blame their bad luck are the real failures. It's no help not to be enterprising. What has been lost can never be recovered. The past is gone. We should wholeheartedly put it behind us and strive to move forward to create a better tomorrow.

Failure is the mother of success. It can motivate people to work hard and explore. If failure points the way to success, we can even regard it as success. As one writer said: 'I have recently revised some famous sayings, one of which is to change & lsquo; from success to failure, because we can learn nothing from success. The only thing that teaches us is failure. Success only strengthens our faith. 'composition

Failure does not mean that we are losers, it only means that we have not yet achieved success; failure does not mean that we are stupid, it only means that our wisdom needs to be improved; failure does not mean that we should retreat, it only means that we should have stronger perseverance.

In the failure, we have learned a lot and accumulated a lot of experience, which makes us more clear about the direction of success. In countless failures, our wisdom has been improved and our knowledge has been broadened. Let's not be afraid of failure and face it calmly. We're growing up. Because I long for ideal, I long for frustration. I long for rugged mountain roads to make my feet solid. I long for abrupt peaks to make my heart tough. I long for sharp thorns to make my body flexible. I long for strong winds to harden my muscles and bones. I long for rainstorms to nourish my body. I long for strong waves to wash my soul. I long for hard rocks to temper my will& hellip;…

Because I long for success, so I long for frustration, because frustration is the prelude to success, how can we see the rainbow without experiencing the wind and rain, the joy of success dispels the trauma of frustration, and the strength brought by frustration becomes the strong backing of success.

Because I am eager to fight, so I am eager to setbacks, people want to self-improvement, we must fight, and to fight tenaciously in setbacks, unwilling to sink. If you really learn to fight in setbacks, you will realize the value of life.

Because I long for romance, so I long for frustration. Because of setbacks, love will not be as plain as boiled water, as delicate as artificial flowers. composition

I long for colorful life, so I long for setbacks. Because of setbacks, life will not be as plain as boiled water, as delicate as artificially cultivated flowers.

Frustration is the best teacher of life, but also a wealth of life. Because of setbacks, we depict colorful life; because of setbacks, we cast a strong character; also because of setbacks, we enjoy real happiness. composition

So I long for setbacks, I long for fast growth. Growth needs setbacks. Growth needs setbacks

Lin Yanfang, class 3, grade 1, Shangtang middle school

A calm lake can't make a tough opponent; a comfortable life can't make a great man of the times. On the road of life, only experienced setbacks, will make us continue to grow!

Take me for example! I am the little princess in my family, my life is smooth and carefree! But in the calm sea, there will be strong winds and big waves. I remember once, the school assigned an assignment to "do housework". I know nothing about it! Looking at the place I cleaned, it's really miserable. There are traces of rags on the glass and footprints on the table

…… After being ridiculed by my sister, the tears in my eyes kept flowing like a tap that had not been turned off. My mother came to comfort me, "too happy life is ordinary life, too easy to get things are not precious things. Now you need to go beyond yourself and face setbacks. Transcending self is the conquest and baptism of self. People must go through the most difficult and painful process. Only in this way can people be strong.