Master destiny
The sun is very warm, but after all, it is still early spring, with a cool wind, blowing some cold.
On the spur of the moment, he and his family stood in the park playing badminton with rackets. The wind is very naughty and the ball is out of control. After a long time, the opposite sister was annoyed. The wind rolled up her hair on her forehead. Several long strands of hair wrapped around her lips and let her eat them into her mouth. She threw away the ball and wound it behind her ears with her hand holding the ball. Then, he stroked the brow with the back of his hand, and spread his frown because of chagrin. At the same time, he wiped away a little sweat. She raised her head, as if looking at the invisible wind. When she scolded it, she put the racket in my hand and left alone.
I always love to observe, love to see everything in the world in detail. I will feel the speed of time because of the exchange of four seasons, I will feel the fragility of life because of the withering vegetation, I will sigh the tenacity of nature because of the snow and plum, I will feel, I will be more emotional. So at that moment, I was facing a badminton abandoned by my sister, and realized my confusion.
The warm sunshine shines on the badminton feathers, which have been stained with stains, and some damaged feathers become glossy because of the sudden favor of the sunshine, with a touch of softness. All of a sudden, a gust of wind blowing, next to the tree brushing sound, the ground badminton seems to dance with the wind, rolled on the ground after a few circles, then returned to the ground. The wind blows and the ball rolls round and round, gradually getting far away from me. I run to pick it up, but before I touch it, it goes away with the wind.
At that moment, I should not say that it was accidental, because I would rather believe that badminton is alive, it is trying to fight for its own destiny, even if it can not move a bit, but it is persistent to grasp its own destiny, trying to use its own strength to change the fate, even if in the end it is still with the help of the wind. Yes, that's what I want to think. Only in this way can I have courage. I have to remember that even a badminton is struggling with fate, why can't I?
I've been confused. I'm confused at this age. I don't know how to read well, how to walk the road of life, and what my future will be. That kind of confusion is a kind of tangle, but it is a kind of tangle that even I can't explain clearly. I only know that I am confused, but I never know why I am confused and what will happen when I am confused. Sometimes, like my sister, my eyebrows will knot. I try to smooth it, but I can't help it. At this age, I'm sentimental. Just, think of that badminton, sentimental as if to become a joke, laughing at their own stupidity, that moment, there is no confusion.
2. Master destiny
Beethoven, a German composer, once said: "we should hold the throat of fate and never let it overwhelm us." When it comes to fate, first of all, we need to define a concept, that is, what is "fate".
The so-called destiny in this sea is defined as life and death, rich and poor, and all encounters. In other words, destiny covers our life and death, the poverty or wealth we are born with, and everything we will or will encounter.
Each of us, our life is like a journey, the starting point is not optional, the end is not predictable, this is an understanding of fate, an understanding, an understanding. Some people will say: "to sum up, we human beings cannot change our destiny, so we have to change ourselves." But we don't know that when we change ourselves, we are also changing our destiny.
This is a topic worthy of discussion. According to Cihai's definition of fate, fate refers to life, death, wealth and all experiences. Therefore, we can discuss this definition separately. First of all, life and death, indeed, life and death in the sky, not by people, then we can say that fate can not be changed. Next, let's talk about the other two concepts besides life and death. First of all, the rich and the poor. What we are born with seems to be unchangeable. But when we look at it carefully, the difference between the rich and the poor can be changed by hard work or diligence. Speaking of the former and then discussing the latter, the concept of all experiences in life, on the surface, our experiences in life are indeed unchangeable, but it also involves a question, that is, whether it is really unchangeable. The so-called can't change, just his arrival, his pace we can't stop, can't change. But once he comes to us, it can still be changed by our subjective actions. The experience here can also be understood or special circumstances. Once he comes, we can change our situation by changing ourselves. In changing the situation, we don't feel that we have changed the existing things and changed our own destiny.
It can be seen that our destiny is not completely unchangeable, at least in a certain sense.
Therefore, we should complain less about the injustice of our destiny, find more reasons from our own subjectivity, change ourselves and adjust ourselves in order to change our destiny.
Change the objective facts that can be changed or cannot be changed.
What can fate do to me if I control my own subjective will?
3. Grasp the destiny
No matter what kind of water it is, as long as it reaches the ocean, it is the ocean.
——Inscription
Fate is a very tricky thing, which can't be seen or grasped. However, if you have a good grasp of the opportunity, then you can control the fate!
It can be said that as long as you work hard, you can really regard yourself as a winner! No matter what kind of water, as long as it reaches the sewer, it is the sewer! Don't regret yourself, that's the key!
The most important thing is to have desire. Desire is the most powerful thing in the world. When you fantasize, you have nothing. When you are an activist, you have many enviable things. You have to pay for the pleasure you get from time to time!
Mentality
What is mentality? That's the way to success! If you are helped, you may soon forget: if you are stepped on, you may never forget it! Once helped others, did not get in return, may have been bitter! This is the problem of mentality. If you put your mentality in order, someone will notice you. Don't always think about what will be taken away by others. It's not worthless to pay for others. At least you know, in the turbid world, you still keep the innocence, the most valuable and true "truth"!
Pain
Pain is inevitable! To say who has no pain in his life, it's really not even the last piece of "truth"! Some people say that pain is a kind of medicine that God takes for us. It has the same profundity as the sea of bitterness: it can relieve the pain as well as happiness! What we lose in joy can often be found in pain. It's a lesson we have to learn. It's just pain. Everyone doesn't like it. However, it is our best teacher!
"Lost"
Some people often talk about loss, but ignore its importance.
Loss, should be because you often compare with others, more loss will be more. The heart indulges in the swamp, the body is in the swamp. But if you change the angle, it's not the same, and the view is not the same! You think like this: you are the world, you are happiness, you are your future! If you really can think like this, then I can tell you: you are far away from loss! You are no longer lost!
Postscript
In fact, I like some very touching sentences, but no matter what the reality is, just remember that you won't lose to yourself! Grasp the fate of their own, always remind themselves: you are not weak!
Destiny is in your own hands
During the summer vacation, I finished reading Helen Keller's autobiography if you give me three days of light with great reverence, and I immediately understood a sentence that my father often said to me: "fate is in my own hands."
Helen Keller only spent 18 months of bright and beautiful days. In the 19th month of her life, illness mercilessly deprived her of her light and voice. From then on, Helen Keller became a blind, deaf and dumb disabled person. In the 87 spring and autumn after her, she was dead calm and dark, and her fate was too unfair to her; However, she didn't lose heart and bow to fate. With the care and help of her father, mother, teacher Sullivan and many other kind-hearted people, she fought against fate with tenacious perseverance. She went to Harvard University and got her bachelor's degree with excellent results. She devoted herself to the cause of the disabled all her life and became an outstanding philanthropist, speaker and educator.
It's incredible, yeah! It's hard for us normal people to achieve this.
I often complain about my bad fate. I have been weak and ill since I was a child. I have lived in the hospital many times and taken a lot of medicine. Therefore, I have become the apple of my father and mother's eye. I am very considerate of me. I hope I am in good health, good at study, good at thinking, clever and sensible. Compared with Helen Keller, I am very lucky. However, I don't understand the hearts of adults. For example, in my study, I often carelessly write wrong words in Chinese and wrong numbers in math, which makes them angry after every homework or exam; When the amount of homework assigned by the teacher is a little bit larger, I always feel sad and complain that I have no time to do it, and I almost turn people into homework machines... Think of Helen Keller, a blind, deaf and dumb disabled person, who has learned five languages and went to a famous university. How difficult it is, how much effort and perseverance it takes to complete it, I'm so ashamed to think of that.
On Sunday, I watched the competition of "Guangdong Asian Paralympic Games". Their spirit of fighting against fate moved me: as a healthy person, we should use our hard-working hands to write a beautiful life. How can we bow to fate because of a little difficulty, a little setback and a failure? no never!
Father, mother, teacher, please rest assured, I will use my hard-working hands, tenacious struggle, diligent study, and strive to become a useful person.
Fate is in your own hands
The annual college entrance examination has come to an end.
Compared with previous years, the obvious feature of this year's college entrance examination is the increase in the number of candidates. This year, the total enrollment of colleges and universities in China is 7.23 million, a net increase of 1.1 million over last year, an increase of 17.9%. The increase in enrollment is the largest in the past years. For the first time, the number of rural candidates exceeded that of urban candidates. This year, there were 3.98 million rural candidates, accounting for 55% of the total number of applicants. Although the final admission results have not yet come out, but I am afraid that, like the previous college entrance examination, it is impossible for everyone to achieve their wishes.
In the face of the heat of college entrance examination, we must have cold thinking. Especially for those candidates who may fail and their parents, it is much more important to have a correct understanding of the college entrance examination, sum up learning experience, treat the results rationally and plan for the future seriously than to worry and complain blindly.
Our society is developing towards a knowledge-based society and a learning oriented society. Examination is about what one has learned