I believe that some female friends have experienced this kind of experience. When they are in love, they are sweet and sweet. But when they talk about marriage to him, they are all hesitating and ambiguous answers. In the eyes of men, the objects they like and the objects they marry cannot be generalized. There are five characteristics of women that men like but don't want to marry.
1. It's hard to cook
As the saying goes, "if you want to catch a man's heart, you need to catch his stomach first.". If his stomach wants to stay away from you, he may leave you one day. A 25-year-old man said: 'once when I was eating my girlfriend's cheese grill, it was disgusting and sour, which almost killed me, but she didn't realize the smell. It made me realize that two people can't live together '.
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2. Family relations are not harmonious
A 28 year old man said he has been dating his girlfriend for five years and has reached the point of marriage. However, due to the disharmony of her family, she never introduced me to her family. Although I like her very much, after all, the family environment gap between the two is too big, but they can only break up eventually '.
It's not that they don't love each other enough, but some objective factors that cause them to go their separate ways. It's really a pity. Therefore, marriage is not only the mutual understanding of two people, but also the harmonious support of two families. As a result, many people prefer to choose people who are similar to their family environment to get married 'smoothly'.
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3. Sexual disharmony
A 30-year-old man said that his sexual life has become less and less since his association, which may be partly due to himself, but every time he was refused a "no mood" by her, the relationship could not be maintained. If you get married, you will want children, so you can't ignore the problem '.
Indeed, whether to have children is an inevitable topic in their future planning. However, if the two sides can negotiate happily and understand each other, the results may be quite different.
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4. Untidy life
For most men, after marriage, the cleaning and housework are done by their wives, so they will never consider marrying a woman with a sloppy life. A 31 year old man said: 'when I first came to her house, I was shocked by the mess in the room. The tableware on the kitchen detergent table hasn't been washed for a long time, and the clothes and underwear littered on the ground are all dusty. It also reminds me that she was not very neat before. Her backpack and purse are always dirty. The room was so messy that I wanted to distance myself from her.
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5. Too much interference
It is just because I like him that I can restrain him. This kind of mood is understandable, but once I overdo it, it will backfire. A 27 year old man said: 'my girlfriend is beautiful and gentle, but she is too tied to me. Even at work parties, as long as there are women, I will not be allowed to go, and sometimes I will casually delete my female friends on Facebook. Although she once said that she wanted to live with me, the thought of the future life made me headache and finally broke up '.
It's rare to meet him who is very similar in appearance and character, but if you are not careful, any of the above situations may be the reason why he finally refuses you. Especially in the two aspects of living habits and interference degree, men attach great importance to marriage. So, female friends should pay attention to see if they are also a member of the 'marriage insulator'. It's not too late to make a change from now on if you're unlucky to be on the list.