Original title: migrant workers protect paralyzed wife for 26 years
After 26 years of careful care, sihai.com has been a good father to his children; after 26 years of silent protection, he has been a good husband to his wife; after 26 years of never leaving, he has been a good man in other people's eyes. He spent 26 years with his paralyzed wife, melting his wife's heart with his persistence, and deducing the true love in the world with his kindness. He is LAN fapeng, a migrant worker in Maquan village, hongyazigou Township, Huzhu Tu Autonomous County, Haidong City, Qinghai Province.
Misfortune suddenly comes to the happy home
"It's not easy for him to take care of his paralyzed daughter-in-law after all these years!" in hongyazigou township of Huzhu County, whenever LAN fapeng is mentioned, the villagers will think of his touching story of guarding his wife for more than 20 years, followed by sincere praise.
When he saw LAN fapeng in Maquan village, he was busy washing clothes in the yard. He's medium-sized with gray hair. His weather beaten face is full of wrinkles left by years, and his gentle eyes are shining with kindness.
In July 1993, LAN fapeng, a migrant worker, immediately sent his wife to Xining provincial capital hospital for lumbar spine surgery after receiving the news that his wife Quan Lian fell off the roof. After being hospitalized for more than a month, the attending doctor told LAN fapeng: "the patient suffered from severe injury to the lumbar spinal cord, resulting in high paraplegia. I'm afraid he will spend the rest of his life in bed. '
In the face of the sudden disaster, LAN fapeng, who was only 37 years old at that time, was stunned. Looking at his four underage children and his bedridden wife, LAN felt as if the sky had collapsed.
Before his wife was paralyzed, although the family conditions were not rich, the whole family was still very happy. "They have three sons and one daughter. At that time, the oldest son was only 16 years old and the youngest was only 8 years old.
The husband and wife farm at home, go out to work to earn money in their spare time, respect and love each other, show filial piety to their parents, raise their children, and are full of hope for the future. However, the sweet and happy life is so short.
'we must take good care of our wives. Children can't live without their mothers. "This belief supported LAN fapeng to shoulder the burden of life.
After she left the hospital, she was bedridden all the time, incontinent, even dependent on others, unable to take care of herself. Every day, LAN fapeng fed his wife rice, medicine, injection, turned over, washed clothes, changed clothes, washed his hair and face, scrubbed his body, received excrement and urine, and massaged his muscles and bones.
Love each other and never leave
'every day, when other people just wake up from their sleep, I have been busy at home for more than 2 hours, first picking up the urine for my wife, turning over, and then simmering the Kang. LAN fapeng said that the Kang his wife sleeps on must be lit on time every day, no matter in spring, summer, autumn and winter. He was afraid that the Kang would be cold, which would have bad blood circulation for his wife or be easy to catch a cold.
After that, he would chop firewood to light a stove, make a fire to cook according to his wife's taste, clean up the room, feed pigs and chickens. After that, he still had a required homework every day, which was to massage his wife for 30 minutes in the morning and evening, and then go out to work.
'while I was working, I had to run back to turn my wife over, pick up the urine, and pour water and medicine. 'at night, when most people fall asleep, LAN fapeng is still busy preparing food for the next day.
Day after day, year after year, since his wife was paralyzed, LAN fapeng never slept a night.
'for the convenience of taking care of my wife, I never take off my clothes when I go to bed at night. This habit has persisted for 26 years. 'when LAN fapeng talked about this, all the villagers in the eight townships raised their thumbs.
The suffering of illness makes his wife's temper a little strange. At this time, he can only choose to leave temporarily, find a place where there is no one, shed tears secretly, and then go back to accompany him with a smile.
The burden of taking care of his wife is nothing to LAN fapeng. Over the years, the cost of his wife's treatment and children's schooling has been pressing on him like a huge stone.
In order to raise money, other people's rest time has become his time to make money. He gets up early and goes to bed late and works hard to earn money. The villagers know that LAN fapeng is not easy, so they tell him all the opportunities to earn money.
Continue the warmth of love
Despite his family's difficulties and limited ability, LAN and his family have never forgotten their neighbors. When a family is in trouble, they always try their best to help. They are called warm-hearted by the villagers.
LAN fapeng, who is more than 60 years old, works steadfastly and enthusiastically. Every time there is a big activity in the village, he will actively go to the Party member's activity room to clean up. "Lan fapeng is a hardworking and quick person. He is not afraid of hardship and fatigue. He is a rare good man!" the villagers praised him.
Today, LAN fapeng still takes good care of his paralyzed wife every day. In the past 26 years, he has never complained and never looked on his wife's face. Whenever LAN fapeng felt uncomfortable, he would play erhu and folk tunes. His optimistic and open-minded character filled the clean and quiet courtyard with vigor and vitality. Now his children are married, and he also has grandchildren. In order to support his family, his children go out to work, and he takes care of the two grandchildren.
'I don't know what kind of fortune I got in my life, which made me get such a good husband. Without his careful care, I would have died long ago. 'My wife always says that.
'she is my wife and has worked hard for this family for most of her life. I should take good care of her and let her lie in bed and feel the happy life of the new era. "When asked about her future plans, LAN fapeng firmly said," I will take care of her until she grows old, because it's my responsibility! "