Everyone has to live in old age. The era of raising five, six, seven and eight children is gone forever. Even if they are only children, the things they bring to them are not easy. Parents who are about to retire or have retired must change their life creed. They can't go back to the old way of the previous generation. They might as well try to build a yard, If you plan your retirement life with a new life creed, neither the sky nor the earth will fall down, then learn to do it
1、 First of all, you pay for your children. Don't expect them to come back like you. The pay is not directly proportional to the return. Only the parents in the world are willing to accept your milk. It can't feed you. Filial children are fewer and fewer, save their own milk to support themselves.
2、 When your teeth are good, your legs are good, and your body is OK, you can taste the delicious food in the world while you are not deaf or dumb, and your thinking is clear. Take a look at the great rivers and mountains, and walk around. It's not a waste of the afterlife. Don't complain about yourself when you can't walk when you get to your teeth.
3、 Don't take over the responsibilities of your children's lives. Children and grandchildren have their own blessings. They are their life. The way is for them to go. What should be given up must be given up. Only by letting them be independent can you put down the burden.
4、 Learn an art while you are young, and prepare for the empty nest when you are old. Once the child leaves home, he will not be dazed by the wall all day long. Without his spiritual sustenance, he will come to you. This is inevitable.
5、 When you feel sorry for your children, you also feel sorry for yourself. No matter how filial the children are, you have to bear the cold and fever. No one can replace you. You think that children are the meat that falls from you, but they will never feel that you are the meat that falls from them. Those are two concepts.
6、 If you want to spend a piece of money on yourself, you will never spend eight cents. Your consumption in the later half of your life is limited. There is no need to be stingy with yourself, and you can't save it. If you save it, no one will set up a memorial archway for you. Only you can save yourself.
7、 Don't worry about children's affairs. If you don't eat or sleep, things still exist. There will be no river that can't cross. If you are hungry, sparrows will never die. Don't worry about salty radish.
8、 When you get to the age of obedience, if you don't compare or compare, most of your life has passed. Everything is a floating cloud. Your existence is the best. If you stretch your legs and feet, it can't take up a meter or two. Contentment and happiness is the moment. You should reduce and suppress your desire. You are about to enter old age. Seeing mountains is mountains, and seeing water is water, Don't let others fart, your throat is itchy, you can't learn anything.
9、 Find one or two close friends, relax yourself, say what you should say, sing what you should sing, release some of your depression, and enjoy your happiness together. Why not go crazy for a while? No one can restrain your spirit, why not? When you are young, your reserve can be swept away, and you need to relax your spirit. Natural relaxation is the only magic weapon for your body to function normally, so it is not easy for you to get sick.
10、 It's just a donkey who has to rest after a long time of grinding. When he gets to Huajia, nothing is hard to do. Let alone feel uncomfortable, he still thinks that the children's house is not well decorated, and there is nothing else to do. He's so worried that he has to participate in the hard work. When the rope breaks, he has problems in the thinnest place, as long as he feels uncomfortable, Either take a rest or go to a doctor. Never insist.
11、 The road of life has gone more than half, what things are common, sometimes the concept of truth is not necessarily recognized by many people, there is no need to fight up and down, the grinding edges and corners have been polished off, it is not good to grasp you, and then let people grasp your handle, then you are really stupid, not smooth, relieved, not resourceful, is mature, It's to make things as they are.
Has the final say: twelve, do not believe that those animal ghosts and regimen are not as good as the three meals a day, and are suitable for the three meals. They can not feel the same as others. They can not let others have the final say, that is, what they eat is all the conceptual food GM, and they can't wipe out the old faces on you. Any natural laws of animals exist, not just taking the medicine, but ever young. To spend money in unnecessary places is better than to eat more delicacies.
13、 Any exercise is gradual. After reaching Huajia, exercise is a relative pastime. It has a certain entertainment nature. It should be consumed appropriately. Don't think you can compete with young people. It's you who get down at last. It's not worth the loss.
14、 Don't get angry. There is enough anger in your life. When others are angry, try not to be angry. Anger is a tiger, which hurts your stomach and grasps your liver. It's only comfortable when it's fart! Don't take some things to heart. When you are old, you have to be more cheeky. You are not afraid to speak or discuss. You are not afraid to chew your tongue behind your back, and you are not aggrieved. When you meet some unreasonable people, you are muddleheaded. It's OK to fire a few shots and get angry. At the age when you can't be aggrieved, who dares to kill you? I don't think he will have the courage. Even if he is so angry, I am still me. I'm happy and I'm still not angry. I have a little bit of hob spirit.
15、 Life is empty, see through yuan without a feather light, the sun and the moon tomorrow vast, might as well smile proud of life! A hundred years of life is just a process. If you want to be smart, you must have your own life creed. You should not be moved by others. Pursuing a relaxed and natural life is the wonderful path of your life. I feel that only you know it!
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