Youth is an inevitable pain period for everyone in the growth stage. Although it is as beautiful as flowers and gorgeous as morning glow, it is changeable and even heavy as stone. If parents handle it properly, children will form stable personality and emotional state in this period; otherwise, children may gradually alienate from their parents and form a negative personality tendency that is not easy to trust the outside world. But now most families are one-child families, each parent in the discipline of adolescent children are feeling the stone across the river, it is inevitable that there is a time when they can't do anything. But don't worry, here is a summary of the main behavioral characteristics and deep thinking factors of the 12 constellations in adolescence. Come and learn from it!
Aries
Muyang baby is born with a bad temper. After puberty, it stinks to death. Because adolescent children's self-esteem is generally strong, parents and teachers say anything at will be understood as implicit criticism. Therefore, the puberty Muyang baby may often blush against his parents. As parents, we can adopt subtle persuasion education to treat such children, instead of throwing out opinions and demands directly in the dialogue. Otherwise, Muyang baby really want to meet with you, education is not successful, but hurt feelings.
Taurus
Taurus baby's "stuffy" side of the character, in adolescence can be said to play to the peak. Adolescent children are always thoughtful and sensitive, and Taurus baby's sensitivity, especially easy to focus on their own less than other people's place, such as appearance, grades, family background, image in the eyes of teachers and classmates, in a word, love to take their own shortcomings to compare with others' advantages! Therefore, the problem that Taurus baby's parents encounter at this time is that their children are always stuffy I'm not happy, but I can't find out why. Don't worry, as long as you pay more attention to observe the things that children feel anxious at ordinary times, and then encourage them in the corresponding aspects, so that they have more confidence and more willing to self affirm, they can gradually be happy!
Gemini
Gemini babies don't like to be constrained from an early age. Their minds are full of all kinds of bizarre plans for the future, so they always suffer from the incomprehension of parents and teachers. In adolescence, this depression will gradually evolve into a concentrated hatred for a certain goal. In short, the common manifestation is weariness of learning. In fact, they don't like to work hard, but the nameless fire in their hearts needs to be vented in some way. Therefore, as parents, do not simply and roughly blame them for their weariness of learning. A better way is to put down the airs and patiently talk with them, so that they can understand the parents' good intentions. This kind of communication is more efficient.
Cancer
Cancer baby in adolescence, will reflect the romantic temperament of a poet. Although cancer is always gentle and clever, it also has a variety of unrealistic fantasies, which will become particularly difficult to restrain in adolescence. Therefore, puberty cancer baby is particularly vulnerable to the influence of novels or film and television works, to infatuate with one of the characters, or to follow a certain idea. For this kind of slightly blind imitation, parents should not be hastily suppressed. Because this may actually eliminate the cancer baby's respect for their parents. On the contrary, parents should try to understand the causes of their children's willingness to imitate, and then make a definite conclusion: whether to let go or to educate. And if you want to educate, what kind of way should you choose to win the trust of baby cancer.
leo
Lion cubs are especially in the limelight at puberty. It is naive to gain recognition through others' attention, but it makes it more easily accepted by adolescent lion cubs. What's more, Leo people themselves have a little bit of vanity, so in this special period of adolescence, they are likely to make all kinds of sensationalism in order to get other people's attention. At this time, the parents of baby lion must not laugh at their childishness or scold them, because in that case, once the lion baby's self-esteem is injured, the loss will be great. A better way is to patiently teach them reasonable behavior, which can not only help the baby lion to obtain a more reliable social foundation, but also gain the trust of the children. Why not?
Virgo
Virgo babies usually have a typical behavior characteristic during puberty: they start to keep diaries, and like to use diaries with locks. This is because virgins with a strong sense of defense will feel the strong pressure of the generation gap at this stage, whether from their own family life or from their friends. So the natural cautious virgin baby will be in the spirit of prevention in the bud, avoid too much communication with parents, so as to avoid wordlessness. If parents want to restore the trust that has gradually disappeared, a better way is to share with their children their various growing experiences and feelings in adolescence. When virgin babies realize that their parents are open-minded and can understand them rationally, I believe they will open up to their parents again!
libra
Libra baby to puberty, both men and women, will reflect a special concern for appearance. They may carry small objects such as mirrors and combs, and pay attention to their hair and appearance whenever they are free. This is because it is the nature of Libra to love beauty, and adolescent children are particularly sensitive to other people's evaluation. After the superposition of the two, it naturally causes the abnormal performance of Libra baby. When you are a parent, don't worry about it. Don't blame your child with such comments as "vanity" and "not following the right path.". A better way is to affirm and even encourage their legitimate love of beauty, and then gradually let them understand their parents' worries (such as fear of affecting their study) after gaining the trust of their children. This way to communicate, the effect will be much better.
scorpio
Scorpio has a rebellious tendency. During adolescence, they will become extremely isolated and refuse to communicate with anyone (not just their parents). Although they will have a strong sense of depression, they are proud of it. At the same time, they may try to seek external stimulation to relieve their inner pressure caused by loneliness. At this time, parents should not try to monitor them by tracking, restricting movement, peeking at diaries or text messages, which may only be strongly resented by Scorpio babies, thus making them more firm in their choice of 'not going the ordinary way'. A better way is to guide them to get in touch with friends who are five to ten years older than they are. This kind of friend is easy to gain Scorpio's conviction by experience, and will not let them have a sense of resistance because of the generation gap. As long as they have reliable character and stable personality, I believe they can temporarily replace the management function of parents and accompany Scorpio baby through the pains of puberty.
sagittarius
Sagittarius baby in adolescence, the desire for the opposite sex will be obvious. The attention and praise of the opposite sex will make them happy. If the opposite sex shows favor to them, they are likely to accept each other and start early love. Of course, puppy love is no longer a social taboo topic. Most parents and even teachers can take a reasonable attitude to deal with this phenomenon. However, the parents of Sagittarius baby still need to pay attention to understand that Sagittarius baby falls into puppy love and avoid excessive indulgence. If necessary, they can use a slightly severe attitude to remind them that learning is their own job. However, at the same time, we should also pay attention to the intensity of discipline! If the attitude of criticism is too obvious, Sagittarius baby will also resist!
Capricorn
Although Capricorn people always give people the impression of being enterprising, this does not include their performance in adolescence. What makes people surprised is that the adolescent Capricorn baby generally has a very strong rebellious psychology, and always loves to confront their parents. This kind of rebellion is really a headache for parents: they can't fight or scold, and it's useless to reason. What should we do? In fact, the best way to deal with it is to manage by stocking. Because the Capricorn baby's rebellion, is to the person (the parent) but not the matter (Studies or other causes the dispute factor). If you pay attention to him and discipline him, they will be more energetic; on the contrary, if you completely let it go and show confidence in them, Capricorn will return to the right path as soon as possible because of guilt and self-examination.
Aquarius
The baby bottle in adolescence is always called a "thorn" by parents with love and hate. Because they not only like to refute their parents and teachers, but also look for ways to refute. Sometimes they can make adults speechless by a set of eloquence they have learned. Indeed, bottle is always famous for eloquence, but the purpose of the debate between the baby and his parents is not the truth itself, but that they like to use this way to prove that they have the equal right to talk with their parents! Therefore, if you want to control the baby Aquarius, you just need to find the right medicine for it