People with personality disorders such as dependent personality give up their obligations to others in many important areas of life, and let the needs of the dependent replace their own needs
You must have had the experience of riding other people's motorcycles. Think about it. How did you put your hands at that time? Which of the following answers is more suitable for you?
A. Put your hand on the handle at the back.
B. Hands on the waist of the man in front.
C. Put your hands on your knees or not at all.
D. Hold the person in front with both hands.
Choose a you must be a very independent woman, you have a cool head and extraordinary judgment, help you do everything with ease, leisurely. I believe that you are a high-profile female candidate in your life. You are not very dependent and can look at problems more rationally. Although you don't seem gentle and affectionate enough, you are devoted to love and career. Your lovers and colleagues will appreciate you very much.
If you choose item B, you seem to be independent, but inside you are a fragile and sensitive girl. When you choose item B, you always dream of finding someone you can rely on wholeheartedly, but the fact is often difficult to satisfy you. In the helpless and lonely journey of life, you have learned to rely on yourself, but your delicate and weak heart will never be satisfied.
If you choose item C, you don't like to rely on others, and you don't like your colleagues or lovers to rely on you too much. Therefore, in your life, you are alone, have outstanding talents, and don't like to make too many deep friends with others. For lovers, you are close to others, and don't like to be thought that you are relying on them. You always keep a distance from them. You have your own opinions, but your personality is too impatient. Although others are willing to associate with you, they will not have intimate friends. Lovers will appreciate your independence and get along with you easily, but I believe that he will always have the feeling that he can't grasp you, so it's hard to avoid a dilemma.
You are a very dependent candidate for item D. you are afraid to take on too many responsibilities in your work, especially if you need to be independent, you will be very nervous. Once you have a lover, you will rely on each other wholeheartedly and lose your independence completely. But, blindly rely on each other, in case of an accident, how will you support it? Believe in yourself, others can do things, you will also be competent.