Everyone has a certain degree of control, especially in the face of the critical moment of work and career, but you must be careless. Do you want to know how much control you have? Let's do a test!
Topic: how do you communicate with a hairdresser when you go to a barber's?
A. Throw a bunch of magazines for him to decide
B. Give an oral explanation about the direction of pruning
C. Take the picture and ask him to cut it
D. Let the barber help you
A. Throw a bunch of magazines for him to decide
Control: 40 points
I don't know if you are really easy to discuss, or if you are born with a weak personality. You often listen to other people's opinions, so what you originally planned became other people's ideas, and even the dominant power quietly fell into other people's hands.
B. Give an oral explanation about the direction of pruning
Control: 60 points
Your preference is quite obvious. You will unconsciously want to have control over the things you are interested in, so as to be able to devote yourself wholeheartedly and no one else can interfere. However, if you are not interested in something, you will act as if it is none of your business and just let it go.
C. Take the picture and ask him to cut it
Control: 90 points
You don't feel very secure in the workplace. Once the power falls on you, you'd rather let yourself be half tired than give the power to others. Unless you feel powerless, it's hard for others to get your authorization.
D. Let the barber help you
Control: 75 points
If you want to get a share of the power you control, you have to get your deep trust. As for the people you don't know, it's more difficult for you to delegate the power to them.