I saw an interview with Fan Bingbing in a magazine a few days ago. I was very touched by some words in it. The reporter asked her if her heart would harden after so many years of ups and downs. She smiled and replied: 'my heart has always been very soft. I don't think people's heart will harden. There will always be all kinds of things that touch you. " Even after thousands of arrows pierce the heart, the heart can still feel the warmth of love. It seems that for this reason, she has become a domestic first-line actress. Recently, she and her studio partners began to start the public welfare project of "love heart". In fact, I have always admired this woman. Even though she may not be favored along the way, she is steadfast and moving forward towards her dream. In her view, women's strength and strength or just their own choice have little to do with external coercion. She said faintly to the reporter: 'people will grow. Even if a person does nothing, he will be able to learn something from the living environment. The so-called strengthening is actually a natural growth. "
This statement is not unreasonable. In fact, becoming stronger is just a positive and willing to meet their own growth at one level; If you always feel that you can't become stronger, in many cases, you are just afraid to face this growth. Fan Bingbing said: 'it is with so many unfathomable disasters and so fragile fate twists and turns that we have to live in the present and face our life calmly.' Facing yourself calmly is a profound philosophy of life. It's not easy to know what you want and move firmly towards your goals. Transgender dancer Venus, even after 16 years of surgery, still faces inexplicable accusations and doubts from others. In the hot interview video on the microblog, Venus said frankly: 'I can do whatever I want. I just know what I want; If I had been defeated because of other people's gossip, I would not have lived to this day. " Live for yourself or for others; It is a difficult choice whether to live in your own world or in the rumors of others.
I also admire Luo Yufeng. In fact, no one is willing to delve into the reason why she got here today. Few people paid attention to the rare review of her statement that she had only two yuan left and didn't know how to live in Shanghai. What most people do is to pass on the negative emotions in their lives to her. She seemed to understand that no one would be willing to listen to her about the hardships of her life when she first came to Shanghai; In order to cater to the vulgar public, she had to fall into a vicious circle and constantly create one vulgar topic after another for people's leisure. Luo Yufeng is also smart enough because she understands and understands the root causes of Chinese character. Finally, when everyone felt that they had won the blow and abused Luo Yufeng, she dragged her thin suitcase and unexpectedly flew to the United States. All those who abused her and looked down on her eventually became stepping stones on her dream road. With this persistence, she withstood the spit of thousands of people and finally successfully completed self realization.
Different environments are enough to affect a person's point of view. I don't deny that Luo Yufeng has many psychological problems, but I must affirm her efforts for self realization. Few people can bear the pain that must be experienced by breaking pupae into butterflies; Today, we are more and more far away from our dreams. What qualifications do we have to judge this woman? This is her life and choice. In other words, she realized her dream without stealing or robbing, corruption or corruption. She is much more noble than many people around us. On the streets of the United States, there will still be foolish foreign students chasing Luo Yufeng to take photos all over the street; Among these people, there are many young children who pretend to be abroad with their parents' money. Their resistance to pressure is not even one tenth that of Luo Yufeng. Because they may never encounter such growth in their life; They don't understand how much self struggle it takes to achieve this self realization in Luo Yufeng's environment. Adhere to themselves and bravely go to the end, and fight the world with a soft heart -- this is the strong women who have successfully realized themselves in this era and their philosophy of life.