All things in this world, there is always a gain and a loss. Love can give you joy, but it also gives you pain; Wealth can give you enjoyment, but it can also bring distress; Success makes you happy, but when you fail, the pain will become intense and unbearable.
If you expect something and you get it, it's a kind of happiness. However, you will feel the same amount of sadness when you lose. When you get it, you get eight points of happiness, and when you lose it, you get eight points of pain. The total number is almost the same.
Some people get wealth, but may lose health, family or feelings; While some people get three points less in career and achievement, they get three points more in quality of life, physical health or time freedom. Some things seem unfair. If you think about it, it's actually fair.
Some people think that the rich are happier, which is wrong. A poor man can get happiness with hundreds of dollars. When he has money, he may spend tens of thousands or even hundreds of thousands to get the same happiness. The heavier your taste, the worse the taste of those things; The more money you have, the less valuable it is; When you are hungry, give you a steamed bread. It's delicious, but when you eat five steamed bread, you won't know what to eat.
People with too much money are afraid of being stolen and robbed; The house is too big to be cleaned; Eat too much afraid of fat, eat too well and afraid of death. You see, what do the rich people eat now? They are eating lettuce, fruits, sweet potatoes, roots and grains, and drinking grass and wheat juice. At that time, these were eaten by poor people or animals.
It reminds me of a story. A fox saw a grape in the fence, and the branches were full of attractive fruits. The fox was salivating. He looked around for the entrance and finally found a small hole, but the hole was too small for his body to enter.
So he went on a hunger strike outside the fence for six days, lost himself hungry, finally passed through a small hole and ate grapes happily. But then he found his body full of food, so that he couldn't get outside the fence and worried that the gardener would catch himself. So he went on a hunger strike for another six days. He was hungry and thin again before he got out of the original hole. So I said, the total is the same, isn't it? The end point returns to the starting point. The starting point is already the end point.
A mole is a rat that lives in a sewer. A mole who drinks the surging river water every day near the river is no different from a mole who drinks water in the sewer. In fact, how much water can a little mole hold in its belly? What is the benefit of drinking too much, in addition to supporting death?
Even if we have the whole world, we can only eat three meals and sleep one bed at night. Even if you have a hundred beds, you can only sleep in one bed; Even if you have a thousand pairs of shoes, you can only wear one pair. Even if you can order a hundred dishes, how much can you eat? You can only fill one stomach at most, can't you?
People come to the world to experience. Everyone's wealth status may be high or low, but there is no difference in the experience of happiness and happiness. But the happiness of the rich is more complex and the happiness of the poor is more simple. That's just the difference. Having several men or women at the same time will not make a simple person happier.
When you are happy, sadness peeps aside; When you are in pain, joy comes with you. In the end, you will find that everything is well deserved, every pain and happiness, everything you get and lose, good and bad. In the end, you calculate carefully. After adding and subtracting, the number will be the same.
Maybe some people get it earlier, some people get it later; Some lose first, others lose late, but the total will be the same. How much happiness you have had and how much sadness you will have when you lose. When it comes to death, everything becomes the same.
Death will make everything fair. In death, there is no distinction between the rich and the poor. It will not be said that the rich die more comfortably and the poor die more painfully. Death will reveal everything. It has always been ten. It is absolutely fair for someone to get ten and when he leaves, he must lose ten. That will be "great pain".
Some get three, others get seven; If you get three points of happiness, you can get seven points of happiness; Those who get seven have seven points of happiness, but they can only get three points of happiness; Some people get it first, others get it later, and others get nothing.
What you get first may be lost first, what you get later will be lost, and what you don't get will not be lost. The total is the same. Therefore, life really does not have to worry too much, do not have to deliberately calculate, just experience.