On Sunday, I had dinner with some classmates. I don't know why I talked about my first love. Originally, who and who had their first love in school was kept secret. At the beginning, they were tortured like special agents. Now they are old and become elite. It's really disrespectful for old people.
I was surprised at the low success rate of first love when I was at school. I separated as soon as I graduated. I didn't hear any more. Many people seem to evaporate from the world. Sometimes it's hard to avoid thinking about it, but after all, I don't dare to make a big fuss about it. At best, it's like Chekov's sigh in the house with Attic: michelus -- where are you?
I don't know how a few people were so bold that they couldn't stop talking about their beautiful encounter in their first love. I can only sit and listen. I can't get in a word. But then I summarized that there are only two reasons. First, my wife and children are not there that day and now.
2、 Never get the best. Most people have a sense of the other side and think that the best is always on the other side.
3、 First love meets the requirements of the other side in terms of time, place and character. And most first love has a beginning but no end. If there are results, it is not called first love. A beginning without an end makes people think. If you really have the end, you won't miss it. Who will miss your ex-wife who just shared his property and fought like Spartan soldiers when they were together?
A hostess said that men are animals with lower body thinking. This is extreme! We were young, and we also had the purest first love. A classmate sighed after talking about all the process of first love: 'I don't know how she is now!' I said, 'at that time, I didn't let member Zhu open it, but later I followed Ma Wencai. What kind of attitude do others look down on you? "
Listen to everyone warmly. I raised my hand and said, 'I can help you. It is said that a first love company has been established in Dalian to find first love lovers who have been separated for many years. You can ask them to check it.' At this time, the person who spoke the most warmly said: 'nerves! I don't think it's called the first love company, but the divorce company. " Another person said, 'are you serious? That's terrible! I don't have such a thief's heart, let alone such a thief's courage. "
Some people say that the best ending is never to meet and keep some thoughts. I said I see you speak so warmly and suffer from the pain of missing. What's wrong with me trying to help? I say you have a conscience. Do you want to find your first girlfriend? Look into my eyes. Everyone shook their heads as if they saw grandma wolf. It seems that the prospect of starting such a company is worrying.
Yang Jiang wrote a novel called Jade man. It tells such a story that Hao Zhijie, a middle school teacher, loved a neighbor's sister when he was young. He compared her to a 'jade man' in his heart and wrote a lot of poems for her, which was too sour to read. When it comes to his first love sister, it's always good. His wife Tian Xiao is not allowed to say a bad word about her and turn her face as soon as she says it.
In short, this' jade man 'is the goddess in his mind. He can't allow others to speak of her. It's like blaspheming her. This name can't be said by ordinary people. His wife Tian Xiao is a primary school teacher. When she comes home every day, she knows how to cook, look after the children, do housework, repair the lamp holder and the faucet. In short, she is an all-round housewife. There was little communication between the two. She felt that Hao Zhijie was like a big child, indulged in fantasy, couldn't live a down-to-earth life, and didn't bother to talk to him.
Similarly, Hao Zhijie thinks his wife is so vulgar that it is hopeless and desperate. In short, he can't compare with the jade man in his memory. When he has nothing to do, he always turns out the love poems he wrote to his neighbor's sister. Later, the family of four moved to the mainland.
Living in a place like a pig cage village, the landlady is a woman with a face full of flesh, and her shape is similar to the 'Little Dragon Girl' played in Yuanqiu. Every day, parents are short and like to take advantage of others. She would steal a piece of coal if she accidentally put it in the corridor. Tian Xiao fought with her for many rounds, no matter up or down.
His two children called her 'monkey ass', which was probably painted on her face like' monkey ass'. Hao Zhijie looked angry and thought there were such women in the world. He felt aggrieved that the term "woman" was used on her. Next, you should think that this woman integrating the world's vulgarity is Hao Zhijie's first lover. When they met, they also had a dramatic fight to pour the toilet. The two sides confronted each other with a toilet in the stairwell, and suddenly met each other like a flash of lightning.
The woman said, 'are you hao's brother?' Hao Zhijie said hoarsely, 'are you a little sister?', A masterstroke 'hoarse' voice. Brother Hao's family really couldn't match the woman with a toilet and full of flesh with his beloved neighbor sister. Don't say the rest. His wife Tian Xiao was stunned to death and stared at him without saying a word.
When I got home, I held my face black. As soon as I closed the door, I fell on the bed, laughed and jumped and said, 'is this your first lover?' Hao Zhijie's face can be guessed without saying.
If the first love company encounters this situation when looking for the first love, will it let the customers fall into debt. The final outcome is that Hao Zhijie is completely down-to-earth, and the rest is; house-moving. When I moved out, I also let the 'sister next door' take advantage of the rent. The couple left in a rickshaw with their children, and the 'sister next door' greeted them in the back: 'goodbye! Come to Bai Xiang when you are free. Do you think Hao Zhijie will go to Bai Xiang? Yang Jiang wrote this novel is a little funny. She will certainly let Mr. Qian read the first draft of the novel. The two laughed together.
That's why the first love company can't go on. For example, you're Paul. Would you like to see Tonya? Especially donnia, who is wearing a fox fur coat and is full of jewels, is willing to meet Paul. Ancient people realized this, but modern people were in the dark. For example, the book of songs said that the so-called Iraqi people were on the water side. What matters is distance and space, not missing. It can be said that it has nothing to do with missing. For example, meditation can't be burned through without three flavors and real fire. This is not about the wind and moon. But a knowable and infeasible ultimate（ (signed)