The hour hand on the clock is moving slowly. It moves so slowly that you can hardly feel its movement. People's age is the same. One day, year after year, they will be surprised. They have reached middle age. At this time, there are probably two things you can't help paying attention to. Obituaries keep coming. Some impatient friends have taken the first step, which is very unpleasant. At the same time, they will suddenly feel that a large number of young men appear in front of them. They didn't know where they were hidden in the past. Now they shake and kowtow in front of you. They are full of characters who walk proudly and look happy, all like going to have a wedding wine. Their partners are stung one by one and give the world to the young people. The so-called 'hearing the death of an old man, but seeing more teenagers in front of us' is a portrayal of middle-aged people.
Once upon a time, there were advertisements on the back of magazines for "Williams red tonic pill", showing a haggard man with his body bent, his hands on his waist, and the words "moral in the picture" beside him. The moral is quite profound for young people. But this picture often appears in the minds of ordinary middle-aged people. Although he doesn't necessarily want to eat 'red tonic pills', he understands the meaning. The pillars of a yellow pine are bent and tilted, not to mention a spine made up of 26 broken bones? Young people can't look in the mirror. It's good to look at them in front of the big glass window of the shop. They always feel that they are still somewhat beautiful.
This habit of self pity gradually disappeared, so that one day, when I accidentally held the mirror, I suddenly found that there was a horizontal line engraved on my forehead. The line was obvious and powerful, like Wu Daozi's' Jingcai drawing '. I thought it was a head lifting line, but it was still the same when I bowed my head. Another closer look at the hair on the head has the trend of moving to the chin next to the cheek, and the most frightening thing is that several white hairs are found on the sideburns. This is a big surprise. People who don't pull out a hair in the past will have to pull it out ruthlessly at this time. They pull out the hair, and there may be a bright meat bead on the root of the hair. But it's no use. Time doesn't forgive!
The average woman is more anxious when she is middle-aged. Which young woman is not as plump and plump as a milk grape, which will break with a shot? Which young woman is not exquisite and vigorous like a swallow, beating so lightly? In middle age, everything has changed. Curves still exist, but that's not the case. The concave part becomes convex, the convex part becomes concave, milk grapes become golden dates, and swallows become quails. The most exposed is a face. From the 'fish's tail', wrinkles spread a net, vertical and horizontal, careless but not leaky. Gradually weave your face into a map of the most developed railway line. The wrinkles on your face can't be ironed flat by an iron. At the same time, I don't know how to add so many fly excrement to the wrinkles. Therefore, fat and powder are indispensable. Except for the wall of dung, there is no reason not to be masonry. It is the easiest thing to cover the original face with another face. However, before and after putting on makeup, it is easy to think of the "painted skin" of Liaozhaizhiyi. Women's meat seems to be the most unable to resist the suction of the earth's center. As soon as they reach middle age, they relax and spread down. Piles of meat hang on their faces, waist and ankle. It is said that many Western women rub their faces with a stick like a noodle stick sooner or later, hoping to make the swollen meat stronger. Some people simply avoid fat, starch, tie their trouser belts, and "starve" themselves back to youth.
How much effect, I don't know.
Don't think it's over when you're middle-aged. no For example, when people reach middle age, they seem to climb to the highest peak. Looking back, a string of young men are climbing up without looking back and wiping their sweat. Take a closer look. There are many stumbling blocks on the road. They once knocked themselves black and blue, and there are many traps. They have made themselves a frog at the bottom of the well for several years. Looking back on the past, I made a moth that caught fire and burned myself. I made a fly that hit the window paper. I wanted to run to the light, but I fell on the adhesive tape sticking to the fly! The observation of such scenes is only possible when standing on the highest peak. Looking forward, there is a downhill road ahead, which is much easier to walk.
Shi Naian Shuihu Xuyun said: 'if you haven't married for 30 years, you shouldn't marry again; After forty years, you should not be an official again. " In fact, 'marrying an official' is a small matter. It doesn't matter if you don't marry an official. It's just that this statement means that you give up halfway. The Western proverb says, 'people's life doesn't start until 40.' It seems that forty years ago, it was just a few supporting plays, and the good plays were behind. I think it has something to do with health. People who grow up eating Wotou rice cakes are not easy to drag into middle age, and their vitality has evaporated. How can such a man marry again? Why do you have to be an official again? It's too late to take 'Vita's life'. I have seen some advantaged men and women. When they were young, they were confused, thick eyebrows and big eyes. They were stiff, like some green and astringent peaches with a long layer of hair on them. They are uncut rough stones. But in middle age, they become moist and radiant. They seem to have springs under their feet. At a glance, they know that they are full of content. Their life is like drinking the aged wine stored for many years, thick and fragrant! For them, middle age is not sad.
It's not too late to start living at forty. The problem is how to interpret the word "life". If you are not confused, and then learn to skate, kick springs and fly kites, 'take time to learn from teenagers', it will naturally be like spring in autumn, a little reluctant. Half old Xu Niang, with her 'bangs', hid in a thatched house and wore high heels as a stilt like practice walking, which was also a tragic thing. The fun of middle age is to know life and yourself, so as to do what you can and enjoy the life you can enjoy. Tong Ling of Keban is suitable for singing the full text of the big martial arts play. Only when he is middle-aged can he afford the big axis play. Only when he is middle-aged can he really understand the content of the play（ Liang Shiqiu)